Aint Misbehavin: Tactics for Tantrums, Meltdowns, Bedtime Blues and Other Perfectly Normal Kid Behaviors

by Alyson Schafer

Wiley | March 8, 2011 | Trade Paperback

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Bestselling author, psychotherapist, and leading parenting expert on tackling any child''s worst behavior

Following her phenomenally successful, Honey, I Wrecked the Kids, parenting guru Alyson Schaefer addresses every parent''s secret fear: their child is the one no parenting book can possibly help. In her newest book, she conquers, one by one, all those behavioral bugaboos that can make a child seem, at times, impossible-and a parent''s life hell. With explicit, life-saving tips on the perfect thing to say or do when things get out of control, Ain''t Misbehavin'' offers parents a sensible, democratic solution to meeting even the toughest discipline challenges.

  • Includes first-person accounts of literally hundreds of parenting conundrums-with practical insights on what exactly to do
  • Full of detailed "how to do it" advice for a multitude of situations parents inevitably face

While acknowledging the daily reality that parents face, Schaefer''s humor and experience make this book a must for parents who want to preserve the peace and also the joy of raising a child.

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Aint Misbehavin: Tactics for Tantrums, Meltdowns, Bedtime Blues and Other Perfectly Normal Kid Behaviors

Aint Misbehavin: Tactics for Tantrums, Meltdowns, Bedtime Blues and Other Perfectly Normal Kid Behaviors

by Alyson Schafer

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Bestselling author, psychotherapist, and leading parenting expert on tackling any child''s worst behavior

Following her phenomenally successful, Honey, I Wrecked the Kids, parenting guru Alyson Schaefer addresses every parent''s secret fear: their child is the one no parenting book can possibly help. In her newest book, she conquers, one by one, all those behavioral bugaboos that can make a child seem, at times, impossible-and a parent''s life hell. With explicit, life-saving tips on the perfect thing to say or do when things get out of control, Ain''t Misbehavin'' offers parents a sensible, democratic solution to meeting even the toughest discipline challenges.

  • Includes first-person accounts of literally hundreds of parenting conundrums-with practical insights on what exactly to do
  • Full of detailed "how to do it" advice for a multitude of situations parents inevitably face

While acknowledging the daily reality that parents face, Schaefer''s humor and experience make this book a must for parents who want to preserve the peace and also the joy of raising a child.

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LOVE YOUR KIDS BUT NOT ALWAYS THEIR BEHAVIOR?

Are you out of ideas for dealing with tantrums, whining, potty-mouth, poor manners, bedtime disruptions and other attention-seeking manoeuvres and power-plays?

We''ve all been there. Those moments when our children behave in ways that seem calculated to drive us crazy. But threats, punishments and other angry responses will only make the behaviour persist -- or worsen. Before you reach your wits'' end, you need a playbook, a tactical blueprint for swift and satisfying results. Here it is: Ain''t Misbehavin'' provides practical advice from an expert -- Alyson Schafer, a bestselling author, psychotherapist and (mostly) delighted parent of teenagers.

Alyson''s democratic parenting approach is based on psychotherapeutic principles, but Ain''t Misbehavin'' isn''t parenting theory, it''s parenting action. Need ideas to help you manage everyday, real-life misbehaviors? Here are the quick-and-dirty solutions: scripts, tactics and defusing one-liners, available now, when you need them.

"Alyson Schafer combines practical advice with an intelligent, philosophical grounding and a friendly, been-there voice. Whether you''re worried about kids'' sleeping, schooling or swearing, you''ll find this book both realistic and reassuring."
-Jacqueline Kovacs, Deputy editor, Today''s Parent

"Perfect, bite-sized parenting advice that is sensible, humane and eminently workable."
-Cory Doctorow, Boing Boing

"A treasure chest of witty, heartfelt solutions to everyday parenting dilemmas."
-Michele Borba, Ed.D., author of The Big Book of Parenting Solutions

"Humorous, humane, and truly helpful, any parent could benefit from the practical wisdom in this splendid book."
-Carl Pickhardt, Ph.D., author of Why Good Kids Act Cruel

About the Book

Love your kids but not always their behavior? Alyson's democratic parenting approach is based on psychotherapeutic principles, but it isn't parenting theory-- it's parenting action. Here are quick-and-dirty solutions when you need them.

Format: Trade Paperback

Dimensions: 288 Pages, 5.12 × 8.27 × 0.39 in

Published: March 8, 2011

Publisher: Wiley

Language: English

The following ISBNs are associated with this title:

ISBN - 10: 0470679093

ISBN - 13: 9780470679098

Table of Contents

Acknowledgments. Preface: How to Make Lemon Bars and Raise a Child. Chapter 1: Parenting Primer. Belonging. Encouragement. Family Fun. Family Meetings. Firm and Friendly. Four Dances of Misbehavior. Mutual Respect. Natural and Logical Consequences. Never Do for a Child What a Child Can Do for Herself. Punishments and Rewards Are Old School. Respect. Take Time for Training (TTFT). Chapter 2: The Classics—a Democratic Approach to Overcoming Those Typical Trials. Sulking. Whining. Crying. Cheating. Lying. Tantrums. Chapter 3: Sleeping—the Democratic Approach to Getting Wee Ones to Winky Land. Won’t Fall Asleep Unless Parent Lies with Them. Wakes Every Few Hours during the Night. Crawls into Your Bed at Night. Night Terrors and Nightmares. Afraid of the Dark. Comes Out of Room after Being Tucked In. Chapter 4: Potty Training—and the Democratic Approach to Toileting. Holds Bowels. Will Only Move Bowels in a Pull-Up. Refuses Diaper Changes. Won’t Use Public Toilet. Accidents at Playdates. Won’t Use the School Washroom. Still Pooping Pants at Age Six, Seven, Eight or, .Yikes!, Nine. Still Wetting the Bed at Age Seven (or Eight or Nine). Refuses to Wipe. Refuses to Wash Hands. Chapter 5: Fretting Over Food—the Democratic Approach to Ending Food Fights. The Pokey Eater. The Food Strike. Overeating. The Picky Eater. Will Eat Only If in Front of the TV. Gags or Spits Food Out. Won’t Give up the Bottle. Chapter 6: From Trough to Table—
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From the Critics

"Alyson Schafer''s book will be a boon for parents and anyone else who wants to raise humane, well-behaved children. With wit, heart and research Alyson provides a treasure chest of parent-friendly solutions to common, everyday parenting dilemmas.  I hope this book finds its way into homes all over the country."  – Michele Borba, Ed.D., author of The Big Book of Parenting Solutions “Who doesn’t love learning and laughing at the same time? Alyson Schafer has a way of peeking into our front hallways where we’re dealing with the tantrummy toddler, the independent tween and the insolent teen, and being the voice in our head that provides us with sage, educated advice in easy terms we can all understand. Warm up your neck muscles before reading, because her approach to parenting, with a capital “P”, delivered in a conversational, humourous and smart manner will have you nodding your head every few minutes. Ain’t Misbehavin’ is the perfect addition to the Good Mom Myth and Honey, I Wrecked The Kids library I recommend all parents have in their homes. – Kathy Buckworth, author of Shut Up & Eat and The Secret Life of SuperMom and parenting feature writer for Sympatico.ca "Clear some prime real estate in your home for Alyson Schafer''s latest round of insight and wisdom: Ain''t Misbehavin'' is an invaluable resource for every parent, every day. Written in Alyson''s charming conversational style, it is arranged in a su
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About the Author

Alyson Schafer is a psychotherapist and leading parenting expert. She is the author of the bestselling Breaking the Good Mom Myth and Honey, I Wrecked the Kids. Alyson hosts The Parenting Show, a weekly television call-in advice show, and she is a guest and commentator who appears regularly on The Marilyn Dennis Show, The National, BTV, and The Montel Williams Show, and in numerous publications including Today''s Parent, Cosmopolitan, Reader''s Digest and Chatelaine.

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