In the spirit of the mega-selling On Bullshit,
philosopher Aaron James presents a theory of the asshole that is
both intellectually provocative and existentially necessary.
What does it mean for someone to be an asshole? The answer
is not obvious, despite the fact that we are often personally stuck
dealing with people for whom there is no better name. Try as we
might to avoid them, assholes are found everywhere-at work, at
home, on the road, and in the public sphere. Encountering one
causes great difficulty and personal strain, especially because we
often cannot understand why exactly someone should be acting
like that.
Asshole management begins with asshole understanding. Much as
Machiavelli illuminated political strategy for princes, this book
finally gives us the concepts to think or say why assholes disturb
us so, and explains why such people seem part of the human social
condition, especially in an age of raging narcissism and unbridled
capitalism. These concepts are also practically useful, as
understanding the asshole we are stuck with helps us think
constructively about how to handle problems he (and they are mostly
all men) presents. We get a better sense of when the asshole is
best resisted, and when he is best ignored-a better sense of what
is, and what is not, worth fighting for.