I'm not the audience for this book; I'm a childless atheist, so
what am I doing reading a sentimental book about parents struggling
with faith? A number of people recommended it to me, and I've
enjoyed Wiersema's other work. Despite the unpalatable subject,
Wiersema was able to keep me reading, which is actually quite an
achievement.
Nothing about the protagonists is particularly interesting: they're
a normal couple with a normal marriage marred by the usual boring
issues of infidelity. Their daughter is also unexceptional: a cute
toddler with no particular talents... until her mother lets go of
her hand for a split second, and she is struck down in a
hit-and-run accident. What follows is a poignant spiritual
awakening for the couple, and for a wide-ranging group of people
who come to suspect the comatose daughter possesses miraculous
healing powers.
This is one of those books that exists mainly to press your
emotional buttons. The husband and wife face only one major
choice--whether to believe what's happening around their
daughter--and the narrative is set up such that they'd be idiots to
choose differently. There's no actual conflict or character
development, just the parents' emotional roller coaster.
So what makes it an enjoyable read? Wiersema's neat pacing and
strong prose, which elevate this book above the myriad sick-child
tearjerkers on the supermarket shelf. Also, the representation of
faith, which was undogmatic, and managed not to alienate this
non-Christian reader.
Compared to Wiersema's excellent 'World More Full of Weeping',
though, this book felt superficial. That storyline also featured an
ordinary white guy who's lost a child, but both the father and
child had agency in their own lives, which the characters in
'Before I Wake' are distinctly lacking.