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Finding Rosa: A Mother with Alzheimer's, a Daughter in Search of the Past

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Finding Rosa: A Mother with Alzheimer's, a Daughter in Search of the Past

by Caterina Edwards

D&M Publishers, Inc. | September 2, 2008 | Hardcover

A moving account of one woman''s journey into the realm of her mother''s dementia.

When her mother, Rosa, begins to show signs of Alzheimer''s, Caterina Edwards embarks on a complex journey-all at once geographical, intellectual, and emotional-that turns out to be a journey in search of the past and of home.

As Rosa loses her memory and her sense of herself, Edwards travels to Istria, now part of Croatia, to get at the truth of her mother''s past. There she discovers the suppressed history of Istria-the ethnic cleansing of her mother''s people-and uncovers Rosa''s personal losses-her family''s exile, her father''s mysterious death, and the roots of her own sense of never belonging.

Caught in that ever-growing "sandwich generation" of women caring for both their own children and ailing, aging parents, Edwards balances the demands of raising teenage daughters with the pressures of dealing with her deteriorating mother. During the four years that Edwards cares for her mother, she must also deal with her mother''s confusion, hostility, paranoia, and fear, as well as her own physical and emotional exhaustion. Through this journey, Edwards braves an area of darkness with and for her mother and finally comes to know who her mother was.

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    Nancy Henwood

    3 years ago

    By reading this small, beautifully bound, book, you will experience part of the personal life of Caterina Edwards and her mother, Rosa. Caterina, a childhood immigrant to Canada (with her English father and her Istrian/Venetian mother), has been rejected and misunderstood by her mother all her life. Rosa, who life has displaced from her childhood home of Istria, the from her young adult place in Venice, to England as a war bride, and then to the Canadian prairies, is not known by her daughter. Rosa’s Allzheimer’s disease causes her to lose her memory, and caring for her mother causes Caterina to begin to look for the truth of her mother’s life. Caterina’s journey takes the reader into the land of mothers and daughters, through the land of Rosa’s childhood, into one family’s experience of the damage of two World Wars, and to the beginning of a search for the truth of Istria’s history, where, like damaged brain cells, many official records have been destroyed. Every chapter rewards the reader with new understandings of mothers, of childhood, of immigration, of the personal experience of the Balkanization of Europe... The personal becomes political in a very moving, and simply told way. The simplicity and clarity of the style holds a rewarding depth of feeling, understanding, and peace. Despite the cliché, Finding Rosa is a joy to read.

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    Caterina Edwards' new book, FINDING ROSA, is an astonishingly candid account of the author's search for her mother's past while bearing witness to the wretched corrosion and disintegration of her mother's present. The insidious and odious disease of Alzheimer's robs Edwards of the opportunity to finally indulge in a desire to ask about the unknown details of her mother's life. As is often the case, Edwards realizes it is just when we are ready to look back upon lives lived that we find roadblocks that make our search for answers difficult, if not impossible: people become ill, people die. As she reminds us a couple of times in the book :"The death of an old man or woman is the destruction of a library." When her father dies and her mother is disgnosed with the disease, Edwards realizes she has come to that point. As she says in her prologue, "As I observed my mother's mind, then her body, fail, I began to want to know her, Rosa Pia Pagan Edwards - to know the woman she used to be.
    In this remarkable book, however, Edwards does not let her mother's disability impede her struggle to piece together history - both personal family history and the history of her mother's people: the Italians of Istria. Thus, FINDING ROSA, becomes not only the accounting of a mother's decline into Alzheimer's but also and perhaps foremost a book of history.

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    As always, mother/daughter relationships can be difficult - this one is no different. Caterina Edwards paints an honest, many times painful, picture of the struggle between a daughter determined to do the right thing despite difficult circumstances and a very ill, very unhappy mother as she deteriorates further in her illness. The author does not paint herself as a saint but these must have been very trying times and the temptation to give up very strong. This is beautifully written, often riveting and completely heartfelt.

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    Sandra-Lynne JANZEN

    3 years ago

    This book should be put forward for and win many awards. It is a beautifully written and moving memoir of trying to recover the lost history of a displaced people and of the writer's struggles with her mother's losses Alzheimers. The combination works so well here because it is in the hands of a very fine, thoughtful, and honest wordsmith. And it has universal appeal because the circumstances, alas, reflect the experience of people from many lands, and of those struggling as care givers for others with terminal or otherwise incapacitating illnesses.
    Edwards may have encouraged us to discover Istria as a tourist destination too. I'd love to visit those islands having had a taste of the region in this memoir.
    Producers take note, please: this memoir has film potential too.
    Well worth reading and memorable.

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A moving account of one woman''s journey into the realm of her mother''s dementia.

When her mother, Rosa, begins to show signs of Alzheimer''s, Caterina Edwards embarks on a complex journey-all at once geographical, intellectual, and emotional-that turns out to be a journey in search of the past and of home.

As Rosa loses her memory and her sense of herself, Edwards travels to Istria, now part of Croatia, to get at the truth of her mother''s past. There she discovers the suppressed history of Istria-the ethnic cleansing of her mother''s people-and uncovers Rosa''s personal losses-her family''s exile, her father''s mysterious death, and the roots of her own sense of never belonging.

Caught in that ever-growing "sandwich generation" of women caring for both their own children and ailing, aging parents, Edwards balances the demands of raising teenage daughters with the pressures of dealing with her deteriorating mother. During the four years that Edwards cares for her mother, she must also deal with her mother''s confusion, hostility, paranoia, and fear, as well as her own physical and emotional exhaustion. Through this journey, Edwards braves an area of darkness with and for her mother and finally comes to know who her mother was.

About the Author

Caterina Edwards was born in England of an English father and an Italian mother. She holds a master's degree in creative writing from the University of Alberta and has taught Canadian literature and creative writing at post-secondary institutions in Edmonton, where she currently lives. In 1997-98, she was the writer-in-residence at the University of Alberta. Her books include the short story collection Island of the Nightingales.

Hardcover

304 Pages, 5.63 x 7.88 x 1.03 in

September 2, 2008

D&M Publishers, Inc.

English


1553653890
9781553653899

From the Critics

"Finding Rosa is a fascinating book from many angles- and well worth the read.""
Legacy Magazine
""Caterina [Edwards] gives us her experiences in an openly honest portrayal of the frustrations she encounters. In finding her mother she is also finding herself.""
Vista Magazine
"Finding Rosa…is a funny, searching, honest, and deeply compassionate book. Anyone who has ever cared for an aging relative or a challenging child (or both), anyone who has ever felt burdened by the demands of the caregiver role will sympathize with Edwards' predicament."
Prarie Fire
"Caterina Edwards's Finding Rosa does not disappoint. Part memoir, part history, part social commentary, part travelogue, part mystery, part medical research, it works well on so many levels and for many different readers. Edwards, author of numerous works of fiction and nonfiction, is an excellent writer; her prose is clear, her details well-chosen…"
Alberta Views Magazine
""Edwards had produced a competent, engaging, even a (historically speaking) groundbreaking work.""
Literary Review of Canada
"Caterina Edwards' new book, Finding Rosa, is an astonishingly candid account of the author's search for her mother's past while bearing witness to the wretched corrosion and disintegration of her mother's present. …On a literary level, Finding Rosa has been expertly penned. Edwards' writing style allows the reader to move effortlessly from the traumatic episodes with her mother to the larger historic issues that run parallel to the family story. The reader is always easily ferried from one to the other."
Italian Canadiana
"[Finding Rosa] is an insightful look at caregiver stress and how depression, guilt and burnout can be as insidious as the disease itself. It is easy for us readers to see but much more difficult for the person immersed in providing care to recognize. …What people may take away from Edwards' story is the importance of self-care but as an absolute imperative to caregivers' health and well-being."
Alberta Alzheimers Society Newsletter
"Her mother Rosa's descent into Alzheimer's disease prompts Edmonton-based Edwards to visit Rosa's homeland. Paradoxically, discovering a past filled with loss helps Edwards get over her own pain - and brings into focus her relationship with her daughters."
Best Health Magazine
"Caterina' Edwards' new book, Finding Rosa, is the best story published in Western Canada this year. This story has mystery, history, memory, nostalgia, conflict and love. Once you start reading you cannot put it down."
Il Congresso
"Finding Rosa is a fascinating story of two journeys. The first is Rosa's, as Alzheimer's disease leads this ageing woman deep into the netherworld of fear, confusion and loneliness. The second journey belongs to her daughter, Edmonton author Caterina Edwards, as she tries to cope with her mother's decline by delving into Rosa's mysterious and troubled past."
National Post

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