As an undatable man, I decided to give this a try. Yes, I know it's designed for single women, but the techniques can be applied for both single men and women. Also for people like me. After reading just one chapter I knew I had found the perfect novel to help with my 10 year undatable streak. I now take it with me on dates ( I have 6 this week alone!!)However, I must caution restraint. One wrong phrase or missed detail from any of the valuable passages and you will find youself at the docklands in high heels and a mini screaming at cargo ships from Lithuania. It is best to practice on your friends first( If you have any. If not try your cat or budgie )I hope that all people like me will try this book. We to send the message that undatable loons are people too.