I LOVED this book. Funny and SO true. I like the clarity. I llike the way the book is set up...it's very easy to read. I read it in 1 night....I could not put it down. It was so good to see a male point of view. Frankly, I don't want to read a book about men written by a woman - a woman cannot get into that headspace. I also liked that the author actually has a happy marriage. Men need more examples like him. The reason men freak out about marriage and so on is because they dont' GET IT....how the right woman would actually ENRICH their life. Wife is NOT a dirty word. I highly recommend this book ...REALLY GREAT !