It is hard to find an apt compliment for this excellent book. It is possible to read it in a weekend, on a beach or in the garden, yet the wisdom it contains will last a lifetime. As it examines peculiarites of Proust's life and character, as well as his famous novel "In Search of Lost Time",De Botton distills the message contained in the seven volumes to provide valuable advice on friendship, love and ultimately how to live a better life. Ulike self help books, "How Proust Can Change your Life" does not ask you to make lists of things to do or change your personality. It does not tell you to buy new clothes or issue step by step instructions on how to artificially seem friendlier or more ambitious. In this book you will not find current buzzwords like 'proactive', 'multitask', 'lifestyle' or even 'successful'. It will not tell you how to become rich. It merely asks you to examine and think about your life so that you may understand yourself better. It also shows how paying attention to minor details is the key to appreciating others, ourselves and the world. It is simply an excellent book. Unfortunately, too few will read it, but those few will have an rare privilege.