After reading this book I felt depressed, although the book does have a "happy" ending. It's really about how "hard" it was for the author to accept her own child with Autism. The way she describes her self reacting and feeling sounds out of control, almost neurotic. I finished the book and though to my self is this what it is like having a child with ASD?? am I going to end up like this: wildly depressed in uncontrollable crying fits yelling at hospital staff?? The answer is NO!! There is hope, treatment, and happiness for parents and children with ASD. A lot of the authors personal experiences are very unrelatable most of us "average" 2 parents at work kind of house holds just don't have the money or connections to get bumped to the front of the line to see "the best" neurologist in the country, average people can't afford to drop work and charter a private plane to fly home because our child is in the hospital. I also had a hard time seeing past all the colorful language, and I mean swear words lots of them. I was given this book shortly after my Son was diagnosis with ASD, the book jacket says "the first book you should read after your child is diagnosed" I would not recommend that. Talk to your child psychologist they can give you a list of far better resources than this one. The one positive thing I will say is there are a few funny antidotes and some very basic helpful info about diet and stuff like that, but be prepared to research on your own if you are interested because there are not many details.