1. Do you think that Mamah is right to leave her husband and
children in order to pursue her personal growth and the
relationship with Frank Lloyd Wright? Is she being selfish to put
her own happiness and fulfillment first?
2. Why do you think the author, Nancy Horan, gave her novel the
title Loving Frank? Does this title work against the
feminist message of the novel? Is there a feminist
message?
3. Do you think that a woman today who made the choices that
Mamah makes would receive a more sympathetic or understanding
hearing from the media and the general public?
4. If Mamah were alive today, would she be satisfied with the
progress women have achieved or would she believe there was still a
long way to go?
5. In Sonnet 116, Shakespeare writes, "Let me not to the
marriage of true minds/Admit impediments. Love is not love/That
alters where it alteration finds. .." How does the relationship of
Mamah and Frank bear out the sentiments of Shakespeare's sonnet?
What other famous love matches fill the bill?
6. Is Mamah's story relevant to the women of today?
7. Is Frank Lloyd Wright an admirable figure in this novel?
Would it change your opinion of him to know that he married twice
more in his life?
8. What about Edwin Cheney, Mamah's husband? Did he behave as
you might have expected after learning of the affair between his
wife and Wright?
9. Edwin's philosophy of life and love might be summed up in the
following words from the novel: "Tell her happiness is just
practice. If she acted happy, she would be happy." Do you agree or
disagree with this philosophy?
10. "Carved over Wright''s fireplace in his Oak Park home are
the words "Life is Truth." What do you think these words mean, and
do Frank and Mamah live up to them?
11. Why do you think Horan chose to give her novel the epigraph
from Goethe, "One lives but once in the world."?
12. When Mamah confesses her affair to her friend Mattie, Mattie
demands, "What about duty? What about honor?" Discuss some of the
different meanings that characters in the novel attach to these two
words.
13. In analyzing the failure of the women's movement to make
more progress, Mamah says, "Yet women are part of the problem. We
plan dinner parties and make flowers out of crepe paper. Too many
of us make small lives for ourselves." Was this a valid criticism
at the time, and is it one today?
14. Why does seeing a performance of the opera
Mefistofele affect Mamah so strongly?
15. Why is Mamah''s friendship with Else Lasker Schuler
important in the book?
16. Ellen Key, the Swedish feminist whose work so profoundly
influences Mamah, states at one point, "The very legitimate right
of a free love can never be acceptable if it is enjoyed at the
expense of maternal love." Do you agree?
17. Another of Ellen Key's beliefs was that motherhood should be
recompensed by the state. Do you think an idea like this could ever
catch on in America? Why or why not?
18. Is there anything that Frank and Mamah could have done
differently after their return to America that would have
ameliorated the harsh welcome they received from the press? Have
things changed very much in that regard today?
19. What part did racism play in Julian Carlton's crime? Were
his actions the product of pure insanity, or was he goaded into
violence?