The Measure Of A Man: The Story of a Father, a Son, and a Suit

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The Measure Of A Man: The Story of a Father, a Son, and a Suit

by Jj Lee

McClelland & Stewart | September 27, 2011 | Hardcover

The Measure Of A Man: The Story of a Father, a Son, and a Suit is rated 5 out of 5 by 1.

FINALIST - Charles Taylor Prize for Literary Non-Fiction (2012)
FINALIST - Governor General''s Literary Award - Non-Fiction (2012)
FINALIST - BC Book Prize''s Hubert Evans Non-Fiction Prize (2012)
 
A son’s decision to alter his father’s last surviving suit for himself is the launching point for this powerful book – part personal memoir, part social history of the man’s suit – about fathers and sons, love and forgiveness, and learning what it means to be a man.
 
For years, journalist and amateur tailor JJ Lee tried to ignore the suit hanging at the back of his closet. It was his father’s suit. But when JJ decides to make the suit his own, little does he know he is about to embark on a journey to understand his own past.
 
As JJ cuts into the jacket, he begins to piece together the story of his relationship with his father, a charismatic but troubled Montreal restauranteur whose demons brought tumult upon his family. JJ also recounts his own ups and downs during the year he spent as an apprentice at Modernize Tailors – the last of the great Chinatown suitmakers in Vancouver – where, under the tutelage of his octogenarian master tailor, he learns invaluable lessons about life. Woven throughout JJ’s tale are stories of the suit’s own evolution, illuminating how this humble garment has, for centuries, been the surprising battleground for the war between generations.
 
Written with great wit, bracing honesty, and narrative verve, and featuring line drawings throughout by the author, The Measure of a Man is an unforgettable story of love, forgiveness, and discovering what it means to be your own man.

Format: Hardcover

Dimensions: 304 pages, 7.97 × 5.5 × 0.98 in

Published: September 27, 2011

Publisher: McClelland & Stewart

Language: English

The following ISBNs are associated with this title:

ISBN - 10: 0771046472

ISBN - 13: 9780771046476

Found in: Biography and Memoir

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Rated 5 out of 5 by from amazing & Unique read Rena Messerschmidt2 minutes ago I bought this book as someone who loves fashion, men's in particular, but what surprised me most was how the writing made me feel like a ghost watching his life unfold. I have read many memoir books, and this is by far my favourite. The life story is woven in combination with the writer tailoring his father's suit and is such a unique concept. I will never look at a lapel the same way ever again!! I found myself laughing and weeping openly at many points. I can't say enough how great this is. I have bought 5 more copies as gifts for friends. This is a must read.
Date published: 2013-03-12
Rated out of 5 by from I bought this book as someone who loves fashion, men's in particular, but what surprised me most was how the writing made me feel like a ghost watching his life unfold. I have read many memoir books, and this is by far my favourite. The life story is woven in combination with the writer tailoring his father's suit and is such a unique concept. I will never look at a lapel the same way ever again!! I found myself laughing and weeping openly at many points. I can't say enough how great this is. I have bought 5 more copies as gifts for friends. This is a must read.
Date published: 2013-03-12

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The Measure Of A Man: The Story of a Father, a Son, and a Suit

by Jj Lee

Format: Hardcover

Dimensions: 304 pages, 7.97 × 5.5 × 0.98 in

Published: September 27, 2011

Publisher: McClelland & Stewart

Language: English

The following ISBNs are associated with this title:

ISBN - 10: 0771046472

ISBN - 13: 9780771046476

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There is a suit in the back of my closet. Over the years dust has gathered on its shoulders. I own other, better suits but I hold on to this one because, for me at least, it is special.   The suit attracts and repels me. It came to me under the saddest of circumstances, and I’ve dared to wear it in public only once. I wore it to test myself, to see if it would fit – not only in its cut and dimensions, but to prove to myself I could bear the mantle and wear it without feeling like an impostor, a boy posing as a man. Most of the time I try to ignore it, and so years can go by without my touching it. But even so, I always know it’s there.   Once in a while, I feel compelled to run my hand along its lapels and think of the man who wore it. I see the line of his jaw, his broad torso and its incipient roundness. I see the pores on his fleshy, bulbous nose. I remember the feel of his thick skin and the dryness of his hands, and I wonder if I look like him.   This is my father’s suit.   The coat is single-breasted with a notch lapel. A boy would say it is black; in fact, it is dark navy. I lift the hanger off the rod and turn the suit this way and that in the morning sun breaking through the blinds. When the angle is just right, the colour has more depth than I remember, flashing with casts of royal and cerulean blue. Perhaps it is only my imagination, or a trick of the light.   Even without putting the jacket on, I can tell it won&rsq
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From the Publisher

FINALIST - Charles Taylor Prize for Literary Non-Fiction (2012)
FINALIST - Governor General''s Literary Award - Non-Fiction (2012)
FINALIST - BC Book Prize''s Hubert Evans Non-Fiction Prize (2012)
 
A son’s decision to alter his father’s last surviving suit for himself is the launching point for this powerful book – part personal memoir, part social history of the man’s suit – about fathers and sons, love and forgiveness, and learning what it means to be a man.
 
For years, journalist and amateur tailor JJ Lee tried to ignore the suit hanging at the back of his closet. It was his father’s suit. But when JJ decides to make the suit his own, little does he know he is about to embark on a journey to understand his own past.
 
As JJ cuts into the jacket, he begins to piece together the story of his relationship with his father, a charismatic but troubled Montreal restauranteur whose demons brought tumult upon his family. JJ also recounts his own ups and downs during the year he spent as an apprentice at Modernize Tailors – the last of the great Chinatown suitmakers in Vancouver – where, under the tutelage of his octogenarian master tailor, he learns invaluable lessons about life. Woven throughout JJ’s tale are stories of the suit’s own evolution, illuminating how this humble garment has, for centuries, been the surprising battleground for the war between generations.
 
Written with great wit, bracing honesty, and narrative verve, and featuring line drawings throughout by the author, The Measure of a Man is an unforgettable story of love, forgiveness, and discovering what it means to be your own man.

About the Author

JJ LEE is the menswear columnist for the Vancouver Sun and broadcasts a weekly fashion column for CBC Radio in Vancouver. He spent a year as an apprentice at Modernize Tailors and was featured in the award-winning film about
the shop, Tailor Made: The Last Tailor Shop in Chinatown. In 2007, he wrote and presented an hour-length radio documentary on the social history of suits, entitled The Measure of Man, for CBC Radio''s Ideas. Lee lives in New Westminster, where he works as a creative consultant for a design firm.

Editorial Reviews

A Globe and Mail Best Book “A personal yet universal story about a son’s quest to understand his father. This beautiful, cleverly executed story gets to the very heart of the most basic masculine bond, and how even through disappointment, abandonment, anger, confusion and pain, a son can love, honour and protect his father.” —Globe and Mail   “Beautifully crafted, Lee’s memoir is a heartbreaking page-turner about a family, an abusive father, and men’s fashion. Who could have thought these themes could work together? In his first book, Lee has shown us how.” — Jury citation, Charles Taylor Prize for Literary Non-Fiction   “Lee seamlessly weaves together elements of painful personal experience, fashion history, and his modern-day quest to learn the art of tailoring and find a place for himself in the world. . . . An intimate and thoughtful rumination on what it means to be a son, a father, and a man.” —Schema Magazine   “An exquisite book.” —Maclean’s   “Touching and inquisitive . . . [A] striking and accomplished blend of humour, information and pathos. . . . [A] thoughtful and intermittently provocative memoir.” —National Post   “A deftly crafted memoir. . . .” —Montreal Gazette   “At times incredibly witty and wry, and at other times endearing and touching . . . The Measure of a Man is a great read.” &md
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