The controversial book that caused a media storm on three continents with its straight-talking "perceptive, blunt, and accessibly written" (Booksense.com) revelations about the new crisis of infidelity.

According to Dr. Shirley Glass, "the godmother of infidelity" ( The New York Times ), people today are cheating on their spouses more than ever before-especially in the workplace. Dispelling common myths with compelling new research and case studies, NOT "Just Friends" is a groundbreaking chronicle of what occurs before, during, and after an affair: the danger signs, the vulnerabilities of even good marriages, and the step-by-step road to healing and protecting monogamy in the aftermath.

Shirley P. Glass, Ph.D., one of the world''s leading experts on infidelity, draws on more than two decades of original research and hundreds of clinical cases to provide a step-by-step guide through the process of infidelity -- from suspicion and revelation to healing. In addition to offering concrete advice about how to tell, what to tell, and when to tell, Dr. Glass presents eye-opening quizzes that will help you ensure safe friendships and secure marriages by exploring the vulnerabilities in your relationship and any outside influences that may put it at risk. With her profound, practical guidance, you can prevent infidelity and, if it happens, recover and heal from it.