This book has so many questions that you probably never realy thought were important, but really are if you're planning to spend your life with someone! If you're thinking of getting married, you should read this! It helped my boyfriend and I open up about some issues that we never actually thought about before, and showed us that we have more similar opinions than we imagined, but varried on topics that we didn't think we would. It's a great way to start discussions together!