1. The novel begins with Amir's memory of peering down an alley,
looking for Hassan who is kite running for him. As Amir peers into
the alley, he witnesses a tragedy. The novel ends with Amir kite
running for Hassan's son, Sohrab, as he begins a new life with Amir
in America. Why do you think the author chooses to frame the novel
with these scenes? Refer to the following passage: "Afghans like to
say: Life goes on, unmindful of beginning, end…crisis or catharsis,
moving forward like a slow, dusty caravan of kochis
[nomads]." How is this significant to the framing of the novel?
2. The strong underlying force of this novel is the relationship
between Amir and Hassan. Discuss their friendship. Why is Amir
afraid to be Hassan's true friend? Why does Amir constantly test
Hassan's loyalty? Why does he resent Hassan? After the kite running
tournament, why does Amir no longer want to be Hassan's friend?
3. Early in Amir and Hassan's friendship, they often visit a
pomegranate tree where they spend hours reading and playing. "One
summer day, I used one of Ali's kitchen knives to carve our names
on it: 'Amir and Hassan, the sultans of Kabul.' Those words made it
formal: the tree was ours." In a letter to Amir later in the story,
Hassan mentions that "the tree hasn't borne fruit in years."
Discuss the significance of this tree.
4. We begin to understand early in the novel that Amir is
constantly vying for Baba's attention and often feels like an
outsider in his father's life, as seen in the following passage:
"He'd close the door, leave me to wonder why it was always
grown-ups time with him. I'd sit by the door, knees drawn to my
chest. Sometimes I sat there for an hour, sometimes two, listening
to their laughter, their chatter." Discuss Amir's relationship with
Baba.
5. After Amir wins the kite running tournament, his relationship
with Baba undergoes significant change. However, while they form a
bond of friendship, Amir is still unhappy. What causes this
unhappiness and how has Baba contributed to Amir's state of mind?
Eventually, the relationship between the two returns to the way it
was before the tournament, and Amir laments "we actually deceived
ourselves into thinking that a toy made of tissue paper, glue, and
bamboo could somehow close the chasm between us." Discuss the
significance of this passage.
6. As Amir remembers an Afghan celebration in which a sheep must
be sacrificed, he talks about seeing the sheep's eyes moments
before its death. "I don't know why I watch this yearly ritual in
our backyard; my nightmares persist long after the bloodstains on
the grass have faded. But I always watch, I watch because of that
look of acceptance in the animal's eyes. Absurdly, I imagine the
animal understands. I imagine the animal sees that its imminent
demise is for a higher purpose." Why do you think Amir recalls this
memory when he witnesses Hassan's tragedy in the alleyway? Amir
recollects the memory again toward the end of the novel when he
sees Sohrab in the home of the Taliban. Discuss the image in the
context of the novel.
7. America acts as a place for Amir to bury his memories and a
place for Baba to mourn his. In America, there are "homes that made
Baba's house in Wazir Akbar Khan look like a servant's hut." What
is ironic about this statement? What is the function of irony in
this novel?
8. What is the significance of the irony in the first story that
Amir writes? After hearing Amir's story, Hassan asks, "Why did the
man kill his wife? In fact, why did he ever have to feel sad to
shed tears? Couldn't he have just smelled an onion?" How is his
reaction to the story a metaphor for Amir's life? How does this
story epitomize the difference in character between Hassan and
Amir?
9. Why is Baba disappointed by Amir's decision to become a
writer? During their argument about his career path, Amir thinks to
himself: "I would stand my ground, I decided. I didn't want to
sacrifice for Baba anymore. The last time I had done that, I had
damned myself." What has Amir sacrificed for Baba? How has Amir
"damned himself"?
10. Compare and contrast the relationships of Soraya and Amir
and their fathers. How have their upbringings contributed to these
relationships?
11. Discuss how the ever-changing politics of Afghanistan affect
each of the characters in the novel.
12. On Amir's trip back to Afghanistan, he stays at the home of
his driver, Farid. Upon leaving he remarks: "Earlier that morning,
when I was certain no one was looking, I did something I had done
twenty-six years earlier: I planted a fistful of crumpled money
under the mattress." Why is this moment so important in Amir's
journey?
13. Throughout the story, Baba worries because Amir never stands
up for himself. When does this change?
14. Amir's confrontation with Assef in Wazir Akar Khan marks an
important turning point in the novel. Why does the author have
Amir, Assef, and Sohrab all come together in this way? What is this
the significance of the scar that Amir develops as a result of the
confrontation? Why is it important in Amir's journey toward
forgiveness and acceptance?
15. While in the hospital in Peshawar, Amir has a dream in which
he sees his father wrestling a bear: "They role over a patch of
grass, man and beast…they fall to the ground with a loud thud and
Baba is sitting on the bear's chest, his fingers digging in its
snout. He looks up at me, and I see. He's me. I am wrestling the
bear." Why is this dream so important at this point in the story?
What does this dream finally help Amir realize?
16. Amir and Hassan have a favorite story. Does the story have
the same meaning for both men? Why does Hassan name his son after
one of the characters in the story?
17. Baba and Amir know that they are very different people.
Often it disappoints both of them that Amir is not the son that
Baba has hoped for. When Amir finds out that Baba has lied to him
about Hassan, he realizes that "as it turned out, Baba and I were
more alike than I'd never known." How does this make Amir feel
about his father? How is this both a negative and positive
realization?
18. When Amir and Baba move to the States their relationship
changes, and Amir begins to view his father as a more complex man.
Discuss the changes in their relationship. Do you see the changes
in Baba as tragic or positive?
19. Discuss the difference between Baba and Ali and between Amir
and Hassan. Are Baba's and Amir's betrayals and similarities in
their relationships of their servants (if you consider Baba's act a
betrayal) similar or different? Do you think that such betrayals
are inevitable in the master/servant relationship, or do you feel
that they are due to flaws in Baba's and Amir's characters, or are
they the outcome of circumstances and characters?
From the Hardcover edition.