There is a secret about The Secret...and that is this:
Everything between the front and back cover is NOT a secret.
For people nervous about reading it because you think it's some
hyped-up mind control thing, rest easy. You're half right. The book
WAS hyped up. Good marketing on their part. As an author, I know
it's important to find a hook or edge. Media, including the
internet, gave The Secret all of its hype. The title alone was
genius!
But when it comes down to it, the book is based on fact and
experiences. I always heard "to be the best you've got to learn
from the best". Like any profession, you learn from those who have
done it or are doing it...not from Joe Schmoe off the street. You
wouldn't go to an accountant to become a hairstylist. Right?
The Secret is a recounting of stories or words of wisdom from
professionals in various fields who believe that if you want
something badly enough--and WORK towards getting it--you can
achieve it. We often tell our children this. That's why we send
them to college or university. Athletes are told this. That's why
they win. Political leaders, singers, artists, writers, anyone who
has a dream of being or having more has to focus on what they want
to get it. And I'm not talking just material things.
I bought The Secret for my teenage daughter. I wanted her to start
thinking more positive thoughts, because we all know how difficult
it is to be positive when you're a teen. My mother has the book as
well and when we were visiting I flipped through some pages and
read bits here and there.
There is nothing new in The Secret. For people who practice any
form of positive thinking (whether reading self-help books,
meditating or going to seminars), you are already following some of
the advice within. Reading parts of it, I found myself feeling
better, mainly because it was reinforcing what I already knew. That
is the purpose of The Secret. You can open it to any page and get a
boost of positive energy, motivation or inspiration. The book is
written in a non-religious yet respectful tone, allowing for
various cultures' differences.
I can tell you this from personal experience: I have attended many
seminars in Canada and the US in the past 20 years. I have heard
much of what's in The Secret said a dozen times in a dozen ways,
all by very successful people. The key is that success comes in
many forms. Not everyone needs or wants huge financial success. And
that's okay. Not everyone wants to be president of a huge
corporation, and that's fine too. You define your success, then go
after it.
I have naturally followed so many principles found in The Secret,
especially in the past 4 years. I believe I'm proof that these
principles work. I've been saying "I'm a magnet" for 5 years! I've
been focused on success, on getting published, on movie deals with
my books and so much more. And these things have come. The laws of
attraction--belief is key. When you believe and can envision
something, you are more than halfway there.
My best piece of advice: forget the hype, forget any pre-conceived
ideas that The Secret is some demonic, anti-religious, mind
controlling entity. It's a BOOK. Pure and simple. It's a book with
compiled quotes from successful, influential people who think very
positive thoughts. And for those who want to have that kind of
success, read The Secret--just flip it open to any page and read.
At the very least, you'll have something positive to think about
that day. And can't we all use a bit more of that?
~ Cheryl Kaye Tardif