I bought this series when I was a young teen, curious about the
birth process and I was left feeling paranoid about it all because
the authors have what I like to call a 'fear-based' approach.
Virtually all of the modern hysteria associated with pregnancy can
be traced back to this nightmarish excuse of a book. I found it
insulting to my intelligence to be honest.
The book is comprehensive but the information is dated; lacking in
current research, and inattentive to the psychological aspect of
pregnancy. It has a bossy and condescending tone, using guilt as
its main weapon to turn the most natural experience into a serious
medical condition. It is full of idiotic statements and scare
tactics and the majority of the "information," it seems, is about
all the discomforts of pregnancy and none of the joys.
The book only offers the hospital model of care and even downplays
the idea of birthing naturally as if it would be foolish to
attempt. It mentions some birthing alternatives at the beginning of
the book but offers no tangible information, pretty much dismissing
them as a possible course of action. They don't even mention
homebirth at all. The book also constantly harps on the Pregnancy
Diet as the cure to all ills and makes women feel guilty for eating
even one spoonful of icecream. Seriously, there are many more
studies out there linking maternal stress to pregnancy
complications and later development problems than there are studies
linking the consumption of icecream to catastrophic pregnancy
failure. Again, important psychological issues are not even
addressed.
I was especially shocked at the cavalier attitude towards
interventions and c-sections. It applauds the use of pain
medication without outlining the risks to mother and baby claiming
it to be in the best interest of both parties such as when labor is
long and complicated claiming: "..pain stress can lead to chemical
imbalances that can interfere with contractions, compromise blood
flow to the fetus, and exhaust the mother, reducing her ability to
push effectively." This is complete bullocks, because they're
insinuating that it is the birth 'trauma' that is causing the
stress and not all the other interventions they did previously that
lead to the dreaded 'failure to progress'. It is a false statement
and should make you question the validity of the other so called
'information' they are giving throughout the book.
Even more insulting is the emphasis on watching your figure in the
section dealing with the father's concerns. They even offer a list
of suggestions for the father-to-be who wants to keep his wife trim
and slim post-pregrancy. It makes it seem like gaining weight
during pregnancy is a sin when it is in fact what you're aiming for
since you're growing a child! If my husband pestered me on my
weight I would deck him, I don't know about you guys.
All in all, I would suggest picking up a book that will treat you
like an intelligent, thinking woman by arming you with the facts
you need to make the best possible choices for your baby. This book
does not. It doesn't even go in depth in any of the issues they do
choose to mention such as cesarean sections which they barely touch
upon and don't even look at the physiological or psychological
ramifications of it. There are WAY better books out there for
moms-to-be.