Don't Be That Girl: A Guide to Finding the Confident, Rational Girl Within

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Don't Be That Girl: A Guide to Finding the Confident, Rational Girl Within

by Travis L. Stork
with Leah Furman

Gallery Books | October 7, 2008 | Trade Paperback

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Don''t worry. This is not that book.

Travis Stork, the handsome and charismatic star of The Bachelor: Paris, has chalked up more dating experience than most men could claim in a lifetime. As an ER doctor, he''s also an expert on the psychological and physiological factors involved in mental and emotional well-being. In Don''t Be That Girl, he combines his personal experience and professional expertise to help you demystify the self-defeating behaviors that characterize that girl -- behaviors that unfortunately, even if unintentionally, prevent many women from getting the most from their lives and relationships.

Don''t Be That Girl cuts to the heart of what makes a woman cross into that girl territory and the red flags that tip guys off to the possibility that, yikes, they may be dating that girl. So who is that girl, exactly? She defies a simple definition. She may be the chameleon who turns into a completely different person the second a guy walks into the room. She could be the girl with the ironclad agenda that she''s held to dearly since her first encounter with Modern Bride (and she''ll do anything to make sure her plan materializes). Or she''s the consummate "yes" girl who is always going along with his every wish. If she''s not saying yes, she might very well be a drama queen who is always saying no because she can''t seem to live without conflict. Then again, she might not be dramatic at all, just miserable inside, wearing her anger and bitterness as a badge of honor. In short, she''s the girl who''s trying fruitlessly to be someone she''s not -- who''s falling victim to the common pitfalls and patterns that lead to that girl behavior -- rather than believing in herself, following her passions, and maintaining healthy priorities.

But Don''t Be That Girl isn''t all cautionary tales and bad news. Often, the same traits that make a woman that girl are the traits that, at their core, are her biggest strengths -- if she only knew how to refocus them. By drawing attention to and celebrating these positive attributes, Dr. Stork reveals how to cultivate and take advantage of them in ways that will lead you to the confidence and happiness that you deserve. Whether you are in a relationship, hopelessly searching, or somewhere in between, this book will arm you with practical insights so you will never again have to ask yourself, Is it me or is it him?

Format: Trade Paperback

Dimensions: 192 pages, 8.25 × 5.31 × 0.5 in

Published: October 7, 2008

Publisher: Gallery Books

Language: English

The following ISBNs are associated with this title:

ISBN - 10: 1416589406

ISBN - 13: 9781416589402

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Don't Be That Girl: A Guide to Finding the Confident, Rational Girl Within

by Travis L. Stork
with Leah Furman

Format: Trade Paperback

Dimensions: 192 pages, 8.25 × 5.31 × 0.5 in

Published: October 7, 2008

Publisher: Gallery Books

Language: English

The following ISBNs are associated with this title:

ISBN - 10: 1416589406

ISBN - 13: 9781416589402

About the Book

The handsome and charismatic star of "The Bachelor: Paris" combines his personal experience and professional expertise to help women demystify the self-defeating behaviors that prevent them from getting the most from their lives and relationships.

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Agenda Girl You probably know at least one Agenda Girl. I certainly have met enough to consider myself something of an expert on the kind of woman who asks me how many children I''d like and if I could ever see myself settling down (and when) during our second date -- or sooner. I once had a woman ask me during the first thirty minutes of our first date if I was ready for marriage and children because she felt like her clock was ticking and she didn''t want to waste her time with men who weren''t "serious" about dating. Take it from a guy, that is not how you want to start off your first date. The Agenda Girl is the one who''s been planning her wedding since she was old enough to count to ten bridesmaids. Her hobbies include reading Modern Bride and designing her dream engagement ring on adiamondisforever.com. (Don''t ask me how I know this!) She secretly seethes with envy every time another friend gets engaged, but is first in line for the bouquet toss at the wedding. She''s known exactly how many children she wants as well as at what age she wants to have them since she was fifteen -- unfortunately, she hasn''t revised those ideas since. She has a list of requirements for her potential husband that is at least a mile long, although, in case of emergency (e.g. she''s twenty-nine and still not married), she will gladly settle for someone who allows her to check her top five boxes: 1 - decent looks 2 - advanced degree in a prestigious profession 3 - steady job in a lucrative f
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Table of Contents

Table of Contents

Introduction: Why Me? Why This Book? 1

Agenda Girl 12
Yes Girl 33
Drama Queen Girl 52
Bitter Girl 73
Intermission: Being a Real FriendÑNot THAT Friend 93
Insecure Girl 106
Desperate Girl 125
Working Girl 144
Lost Girl 160

Epilogue: If You Believe in Yourself, HeÕll Know 180

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Don''t worry. This is not that book.

Travis Stork, the handsome and charismatic star of The Bachelor: Paris, has chalked up more dating experience than most men could claim in a lifetime. As an ER doctor, he''s also an expert on the psychological and physiological factors involved in mental and emotional well-being. In Don''t Be That Girl, he combines his personal experience and professional expertise to help you demystify the self-defeating behaviors that characterize that girl -- behaviors that unfortunately, even if unintentionally, prevent many women from getting the most from their lives and relationships.

Don''t Be That Girl cuts to the heart of what makes a woman cross into that girl territory and the red flags that tip guys off to the possibility that, yikes, they may be dating that girl. So who is that girl, exactly? She defies a simple definition. She may be the chameleon who turns into a completely different person the second a guy walks into the room. She could be the girl with the ironclad agenda that she''s held to dearly since her first encounter with Modern Bride (and she''ll do anything to make sure her plan materializes). Or she''s the consummate "yes" girl who is always going along with his every wish. If she''s not saying yes, she might very well be a drama queen who is always saying no because she can''t seem to live without conflict. Then again, she might not be dramatic at all, just miserable inside, wearing her anger and bitterness as a badge of honor. In short, she''s the girl who''s trying fruitlessly to be someone she''s not -- who''s falling victim to the common pitfalls and patterns that lead to that girl behavior -- rather than believing in herself, following her passions, and maintaining healthy priorities.

But Don''t Be That Girl isn''t all cautionary tales and bad news. Often, the same traits that make a woman that girl are the traits that, at their core, are her biggest strengths -- if she only knew how to refocus them. By drawing attention to and celebrating these positive attributes, Dr. Stork reveals how to cultivate and take advantage of them in ways that will lead you to the confidence and happiness that you deserve. Whether you are in a relationship, hopelessly searching, or somewhere in between, this book will arm you with practical insights so you will never again have to ask yourself, Is it me or is it him?
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