Finding The Boyfriend Within: A Practical Guide for Tapping into your own Scource of Love, Happiness, and Respect

by Brad Gooch

Simon & Schuster | June 17, 1999 | Hardcover

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In the tradition of the perennial bestseller "I'm OK, You're OK," noted author Brad Gooch offers single and coupled gay men a provocative, sophisticated, and inspirational guide that addresses the big issues of love, romance, and being alone. Part memoir, part self-help, "Finding the Boyfriend Within" is a remarkably practical and helpful guide in the quest for self-discovery for the thousands of gay men who despair of ever being in a committed relationship.

"Why don't I have a boyfriend?"

This was Brad Gooch's own question, which he'd frequently heard echoed by others in his many conversations with friends. Then one night he came home to his unkempt, empty apartment and paused for a moment to consider the clutter and casual chaos that filled his space. He imagined transforming it for a romantic encounter, and in an experiment, he cleaned the apartment, lit a candle, prepared himself a cup of warm milk, put on some soothing music, and drifted off to a deep and peaceful sleep. He was still alone, of course, but he had treated himself as though it was a special occasion. This was his first date with "the boyfriend within."

Now he chronicles his courtship of the inner figure who is both our ideal lover and the self we must nurture and grow, to help us prepare for and sustain a real-life relationship. Filled with anecdotes, romantic advice, problem-solving suggestions, and humor -- as well as wisdom from both the East and West -- "Finding the Boyfriend Within" offers simple self-awareness exercises toward the respect, happiness, and love that come first, and most enduringly, from within. Chapters begin with a thought-provoking question whose answers will help readersdiscover their own boyfriend within: a daily touchstone that can help transform all friendships, love affairs, and long-term relationships. Gooch challenges the reader to get in touch with the inner self and to understand that in many ways our relationship to that inner self -- the boyfriend within -- is our primary relationship. By getting to know that boyfriend within, and by coming to understand his needs, then we are more likely to be a whole person, content within ourselves, and ultimately more receptive to finding an actual boyfriend.

"Finding the Boyfriend Within" is sure to garner a positive response for any gay man who desires a sense of connection and commitment in these increasingly isolated times.

Format: Hardcover

Dimensions: 176 pages, 8.84 × 5.92 × 0.72 in

Published: June 17, 1999

Publisher: Simon & Schuster

Language: English

The following ISBNs are associated with this title:

ISBN - 10: 0684850400

ISBN - 13: 9780684850405

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Finding The Boyfriend Within: A Practical Guide for Tapping into your own Scource of Love, Happiness, and Respect

by Brad Gooch

Format: Hardcover

Dimensions: 176 pages, 8.84 × 5.92 × 0.72 in

Published: June 17, 1999

Publisher: Simon & Schuster

Language: English

The following ISBNs are associated with this title:

ISBN - 10: 0684850400

ISBN - 13: 9780684850405

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In the tradition of the perennial bestseller "I'm OK, You're OK," noted author Brad Gooch offers single and coupled gay men a provocative, sophisticated, and inspirational guide that addresses the big issues of love, romance, and being alone. Part memoir, part self-help, "Finding the Boyfriend Within" is a remarkably practical and helpful guide in the quest for self-discovery for the thousands of gay men who despair of ever being in a committed relationship.

"Why don't I have a boyfriend?"

This was Brad Gooch's own question, which he'd frequently heard echoed by others in his many conversations with friends. Then one night he came home to his unkempt, empty apartment and paused for a moment to consider the clutter and casual chaos that filled his space. He imagined transforming it for a romantic encounter, and in an experiment, he cleaned the apartment, lit a candle, prepared himself a cup of warm milk, put on some soothing music, and drifted off to a deep and peaceful sleep. He was still alone, of course, but he had treated himself as though it was a special occasion. This was his first date with "the boyfriend within."

Now he chronicles his courtship of the inner figure who is both our ideal lover and the self we must nurture and grow, to help us prepare for and sustain a real-life relationship. Filled with anecdotes, romantic advice, problem-solving suggestions, and humor -- as well as wisdom from both the East and West -- "Finding the Boyfriend Within" offers simple self-awareness exercises toward the respect, happiness, and love that come first, and most enduringly, from within. Chapters begin with a thought-provoking question whose answers will help readersdiscover their own boyfriend within: a daily touchstone that can help transform all friendships, love affairs, and long-term relationships. Gooch challenges the reader to get in touch with the inner self and to understand that in many ways our relationship to that inner self -- the boyfriend within -- is our primary relationship. By getting to know that boyfriend within, and by coming to understand his needs, then we are more likely to be a whole person, content within ourselves, and ultimately more receptive to finding an actual boyfriend.

"Finding the Boyfriend Within" is sure to garner a positive response for any gay man who desires a sense of connection and commitment in these increasingly isolated times.

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Finally, a guide is available that will help gay men find love and romance. Finding the Boyfriend Within contains anecdotes, romantic advice, suggestions and humour to help readers figure out who they are and how to sustain a real-life relationship. Author Brad Gooch links sexuality and spirituality to create the perfect book for single and coupled gay men.
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