Finding the Boyfriend Within

by Brad Gooch

Simon and Schuster | May 7, 2002 | Trade Paperback

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In the tradition of the perennial bestseller I''m OK, You''re OK, noted author Brad Gooch offers single and coupled gay men a provocative, sophisticated, and inspirational guide that addresses the big issues of love, romance, and being alone. Part memoir, part self-help, Finding the Boyfriend Within is a remarkably practical and helpful guide in the quest for self-discovery for the thousands of gay men who despair of ever being in a committed relationship.
Filled with anecdotes, romantic advice, problem-solving suggestions, and humor -- as well as wisdom from both the East and West -- Finding the Boyfriend Within offers simple self-awareness exercises to help discover the respect, happiness, and love that come first, and most enduringly, from within.

Format: Trade Paperback

Published: May 7, 2002

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Language: English

The following ISBNs are associated with this title:

ISBN - 10: 0743225309

ISBN - 13: 9780743225304

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Finding the Boyfriend Within

by Brad Gooch

Format: Trade Paperback

Published: May 7, 2002

Publisher: Simon and Schuster

Language: English

The following ISBNs are associated with this title:

ISBN - 10: 0743225309

ISBN - 13: 9780743225304

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CHAPTER ONE QUESTION: Why don''t I have a boyfriend? THE VOICE: I don''t know. As suggested in the Procedure, for a week or so I experimented, warming up by writing down quick, spontaneous questions addressing the crises of the moment -- "What''s wrong?" or "How am I going to get through tonight?" or "Should I call him back?" When I asked, for instance, how I was going to get through the night, I wrote down the Voice''s response as: "Only do whatever you feel like doing. And check back with me every hour." The directive was gladly taken, and it was fun. I ended up having a late-night snack of oysters at a place down the street with a friend. I was limbering up for the dialogue and the education that was about to begin. One day I dove in and asked one of the questions at the heart of this whole enterprise: "Why don''t I have a boyfriend?" No sense wasting time, I told myself neurotically. Now, some people beginning this process already have boyfriends, and their first significant question might be different, such as, quoting the old song, "Is that all there is?" But for me, and for many others I''m sure, this boyfriend question needs to be answered and cleared up before moving on. This chapter is concerned with just that necessary clearing, a kind of romantic spring cleaning. So imagine my disappointment when I sat down in earnest to begin to reach the Boyfriend Within, only to receive the reply noted above. Needless to say, "I don''t know" didn''t do much for me at first, exc
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In the tradition of the perennial bestseller I''m OK, You''re OK, noted author Brad Gooch offers single and coupled gay men a provocative, sophisticated, and inspirational guide that addresses the big issues of love, romance, and being alone. Part memoir, part self-help, Finding the Boyfriend Within is a remarkably practical and helpful guide in the quest for self-discovery for the thousands of gay men who despair of ever being in a committed relationship.
Filled with anecdotes, romantic advice, problem-solving suggestions, and humor -- as well as wisdom from both the East and West -- Finding the Boyfriend Within offers simple self-awareness exercises to help discover the respect, happiness, and love that come first, and most enduringly, from within.

About the Author

Brad Gooch is the author of Godtalk: Travels in Spiritual America, and the acclaimed biography of Frank O''Hara, City Poet, as well as the novels The Golden Age of Promiscuity and Scary Kisses. His poems, stories, and articles have appeared in The Nation, The Paris Review, Vanity Fair, Out, as well as many others. He lives in New York City.

Editorial Reviews

Andrew Tobias author of The Best Little Boy in the World That even someone like Gooch would have boyfriend problems is, on one level, no surprise to anyone who''s been around, and yet ceaselessly amazing. That he has actually done something about it, as detailed herein, is unusual -- and to those in search of center, possibly helpful as well.
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