The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are

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The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are

by Brene Brown

Hazelden Publishing | August 27, 2010 | Trade Paperback

The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are is rated 3.6667 out of 5 by 3.
Each day we face a barrage of images and messages from society and the media telling us who, what, and how we should be. We are led to believe that if we could only look perfect and lead perfect lives, we''d no longer feel inadequate. So most of us perform, please, and perfect, all the while thinking, What if I can''t keep all of these balls in the air? Why isn''t everyone else working harder and living up to my expectations? What will people think if I fail or give up? When can I stop proving myself?

In The Gifts of Imperfection, Brené Brown, PhD, a leading expert on shame, authenticity and belonging, shares what she''s learned from a decade of research on the power of Wholehearted Living--a way of engaging with the world from a place of worthiness.

In her ten guideposts, Brown engages our minds, hearts, and spirits as she explores how we can cultivate the courage, compassion, and connection to wake up in the morning and think, No matter what gets done and how much is left undone, I am enough, and to go to bed at night thinking, Yes, I am sometimes afraid, but I am also brave. And, yes, I am imperfect and vulnerable, but that doesn''t change the truth that I am worthy of love and belonging.

Format: Trade Paperback

Dimensions: 160 pages, 9 × 6.13 × 0.5 in

Published: August 27, 2010

Publisher: Hazelden Publishing

Language: English

The following ISBNs are associated with this title:

ISBN - 10: 159285849X

ISBN - 13: 9781592858491

Found in: Self Help

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Rated 5 out of 5 by from Great Read I read this book a few weeks ago, and what an awesome and easy read it was!  "Brown" writes in a simple and easy manner to understand. and gives you lots of "AHA moments" This book is a "pick me upper" and reinstates the fact that though we are not perfect, we need to embrace who we are and what we have to offer.   Great read!!!
Date published: 2014-02-24
Rated 1 out of 5 by from A tough read  The title does not accurately convey the contents of the book.This is a narrative of one woman's struggle with darkness. It is written in first person singular making it an exhausting and irritating tome. I went from reading every word in the first few chapters to skipping to the "point" at the end of the chapters to counting how many times "I" is used in every sentence, paragraph and page. There are many better books out there.
Date published: 2014-01-07
Rated 5 out of 5 by from There needs to be five more stars!!! This book is a life changer for those who need to find a path to belonging and being enough... clear talk to put you on the path to embracing your perfect life... as an imperfect person... I plan to create a support group around the ideas espoused in this book...
Date published: 2014-01-07

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The Gifts of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You're Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are

by Brene Brown

Format: Trade Paperback

Dimensions: 160 pages, 9 × 6.13 × 0.5 in

Published: August 27, 2010

Publisher: Hazelden Publishing

Language: English

The following ISBNs are associated with this title:

ISBN - 10: 159285849X

ISBN - 13: 9781592858491

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Preface Once you see a pattern, you can’t un-see it. Trust me, I’ve tried. But when the same truth keeps repeating itself, it’s hard to pretend that it’s just a coincidence. For example, no matter how hard I try to convince myself that I can function on six hours of sleep, anything less than eight hours leaves me impatient, anxious, and foraging for carbohydrates. It’s a pattern.I also have a terrible procrastination pattern: I always put off writing by reorganizing my entire house and spending way too much time and money buying office supplies and organizing systems. Every single time. One reason it’s impossible to un-see trends is that our minds are engineered to seek out patterns and to assign meaning to them. Humans are a meaning-making species. And, for better or worse, my mind is actually fine-tuned to do this. I spent years training for it, and now it’s how I make my living. As a researcher, I observe human behavior so I can identify and name the subtle connections, relationships, and patterns that help us make meaning of our thoughts, behaviors, and feelings. I love what I do. Pattern hunting is wonderful work and, in fact, throughout my career, my attempts at un-seeing were strictly reserved for my personal life and those humbling vulnerabilities that I loved to deny. That all changed in November 2006, when the research that fills these pages smacked me upside the head. For the first time in my career, I was desperate to un-s
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Each day we face a barrage of images and messages from society and the media telling us who, what, and how we should be. We are led to believe that if we could only look perfect and lead perfect lives, we''d no longer feel inadequate. So most of us perform, please, and perfect, all the while thinking, What if I can''t keep all of these balls in the air? Why isn''t everyone else working harder and living up to my expectations? What will people think if I fail or give up? When can I stop proving myself?

In The Gifts of Imperfection, Brené Brown, PhD, a leading expert on shame, authenticity and belonging, shares what she''s learned from a decade of research on the power of Wholehearted Living--a way of engaging with the world from a place of worthiness.

In her ten guideposts, Brown engages our minds, hearts, and spirits as she explores how we can cultivate the courage, compassion, and connection to wake up in the morning and think, No matter what gets done and how much is left undone, I am enough, and to go to bed at night thinking, Yes, I am sometimes afraid, but I am also brave. And, yes, I am imperfect and vulnerable, but that doesn''t change the truth that I am worthy of love and belonging.

About the Author

Brené Brown, Ph.D., L.M.S.W., is a member of the research faculty at the University of Houston Graduate College of Social Work, where she studies how shame affects the way people live, love, parent, work, and build relationships. She is the author of I Thought It Was Just Me (but it isn''t): Telling the Truth About Perfectionism, Inadequacy, and Power, and the new book The Gift of Imperfection: Let Go of Who You Think You''re Supposed to Be and Embrace Who You Are.

Editorial Reviews

"This important book is about the lifelong journey from ''What will people think?'' to ''I am enough.'' Brown''s unique ability to blend original research with honest storytelling makes reading The Gifts of Imperfection like having a long, uplifting conversation with a very wise friend who offers compassion, wisdom, and great advice."
--Harriet Lerner, New York Times best-selling author of The Dance of Anger and The Dance of Connection

"Brené Brown courageously tackles the dark emotions that get in the way of leading a fuller life; read this book and let some of that courage rub off on you."
--Daniel H. Pink, New York Times best-selling author of A Whole New Mind

"Courage, compassion, and connection: Through Brené''s research, observations, and guidance, these three little words can open the door to amazing change in your life."
--Ali Edwards, author of Life Artist
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