1. "The Pacific Crest Trail wasn't a world to me then. It was an
idea, vague and outlandish, full of promise and mystery. Something
bloomed inside me as I traced its jagged line with my finger on a
map" (p. 4). Why did the PCT capture Strayed's imagination at that
point in her life?
2. Each section of the book opens with a literary quote or two.
What do they tell you about what's to come in the pages that
follow? How does Strayed's pairing of, say, Adrienne Rich and Joni
Mitchell (p. 45) provide insight into her way of thinking?
3. Strayed is quite forthright in her description of her own
transgressions, and while she's remorseful, she never seems
ashamed. Is this a sign of strength or a character flaw?
4. "I knew that if I allowed fear to overtake me, my journey was
doomed. Fear, to a great extent, is born of a story we tell
ourselves, and so I chose to tell myself a different story from the
one women are told" (p. 51). Fear is a major theme in the book. Do
you think Strayed was too afraid, or not afraid enough? When were
you most afraid for her?
5. Strayed chose her own last name: "Nothing fit until one day
when the word strayed came into my mind. Immediately, I
looked it up in the dictionary and knew it was mine...to wander
from the proper path, to deviate from the direct course, to be
lost, to become wild, to be without a mother or father, to be
without a home, to move about aimlessly in search of something, to
diverge or digress" (p. 96). Did she choose well? What did you
think when you learned she had assigned this word to herself-that
it was no coincidence?
6. On the trail, Strayed encounters mostly men. How does this
work in her favor? What role does gender play when removed from the
usual structure of society?
7. What does the reader learn from the horrific episode in which
Strayed and her brother put down their mother's horse?
8. Strayed writes that the point of the PCT "had only to do with
how it felt to be in the wild. With what it was like to walk for
miles for no reason other than to witness the accumulation of trees
and meadows, mountains and deserts, streams and rocks, rivers and
grasses, sunrises and sunsets" (p. 207). How does this sensation
help Strayed to find her way back into the world beyond the
9. On her journey, Strayed carries several totems. What does the
black feather mean to her? And the POW bracelet? Why does she find
its loss (p. 238) symbolic?
10. Does the hike help Strayed to get over Paul? If so, how? And
if not, why?
11. Strayed says her mother's death "had obliterated me.... I
was trapped by her but utterly alone. She would always be the empty
bowl that no one could fill" (p 267). How did being on the PCT on
her mother's fiftieth birthday help Strayed to heal this wound?
12. What was it about Strayed that inspired the generosity of so
many strangers on the PCT?
13. "There's no way to know what makes one thing happen and not
another. . . . But I was pretty certain as I sat there that night
that if it hadn't been for Eddie, I wouldn't have found myself on
the PCT" (p. 304). How does this realization change Strayed's
attitude towards her stepfather?
14. To lighten her load, Strayed burns each book as she reads
it. Why doesn't she burn the Adrienne Rich collection?
15. What role do books and reading play in this often solitary