At least one-third of the people we know are introverts. They
are the ones who prefer listening to speaking, reading to partying;
who innovate and create but dislike self-promotion; who favor
working on their own over brainstorming in teams. Although they are
often labeled "quiet," it is to introverts that we owe many of the
great contributions to society--from van Gogh's sunflowers to the
invention of the personal computer.
Passionately argued, impressively researched, and filled with
indelible stories of real people, Quiet shows how
dramatically we undervalue introverts, and how much we lose in
doing so. Taking the reader on a journey from Dale Carnegie's
birthplace to Harvard Business School, from a Tony Robbins seminar
to an evangelical megachurch, Susan Cain charts the rise of the
Extrovert Ideal in the twentieth century and explores its
far-reaching effects. She talks to Asian-American students who feel
alienated from the brash, backslapping atmosphere of American
schools. She questions the dominant values of American business
culture, where forced collaboration can stand in the way of
innovation, and where the leadership potential of introverts is
often overlooked. And she draws on cutting-edge research in
psychology and neuroscience to reveal the surprising differences
between extroverts and introverts.
Perhaps most inspiring, she introduces us to successful
introverts--from a witty, high-octane public speaker who recharges
in solitude after his talks, to a record-breaking salesman who
quietly taps into the power of questions. Finally, she offers
invaluable advice on everything from how to better negotiate
differences in introvert-extrovert relationships to how to empower
an introverted child to when it makes sense to be a "pretend
extrovert."
This extraordinary book has the power to permanently change how we
see introverts and, equally important, how introverts see
themselves.