Mending a Shattered Heart: A Guide for Partners of Sex Addicts by Stefanie CarnesMending a Shattered Heart: A Guide for Partners of Sex Addicts by Stefanie Carnes

Mending a Shattered Heart: A Guide for Partners of Sex Addicts

EditorStefanie Carnes

Paperback | October 14, 2011

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The media goes wild when politicians and celebrities being caught 'cheating' on their spouses are exposed in public. Most of these types of stories focus on the person doing the 'cheating', not the partner who is left behind. After the media spotlight cools down, what happens to these partners? How do they make the decision to stay or go? Is there really any hope for the future of the relationship? How do they survive the shame and move forward?Mending A Shattered Heart provides real hope, promise and inspiration to readers who are struggling.Anyone who has discovered their loved one, the one person that they are supposed to trust completely, has been cheating on them will want to read this book. Readers have an opportunity to explore whether the person they are in a relationship with is simply behaving badly or truly suffers from a disease called sex addiction. Knowing the difference and knowing what to do about it can be transformational.Author and editor, Stefanie Carnes brings together several leading experts in the field of sex addiction and family therapy to guide the reader through an assortment of difficult questions, including, Should I stay or should I go?, How Do I Set Boundaries and Keep Myself Safe?, What Does It Mean if My Partner Has Shown an Interest in Minors? and What should I tell the kids?" Each of these topics are tackled in individual chapters producing a comprehensive guide that offers readers expertiseon how to begin the painful road of mending a shattered heart.What is unique aboutMending A Shattered Heart is that it offers such inspiration and promise for the partner of a sex addict. It shows the seriousness of sex addiction and offers hope by showing that treatment can be successful, but hard work needs to be done-by both the partner and the addict. Without partners really examining their relationship with the sex addict, they can find themselves in a spiral of devastating relationships, essentially leaving the relationship and then falling in love with the same type of person over and overagain with the same disastrous results.Mending A Shattered Heart shows the reader that they do have options. Even if the partner makes the decision to leave the relationship, there are things they can do to help them in their own recovery and make sure this never happens again. If they choose to stay in the relationship, they can work toward repairing the damaged relationship along with their own recovery.All the material inMending A Shattered Heart is provided in a question and answer format that delves into essential information including therapeutic and practical information that the partner can use right away. This second edition of the book includes a new focus on the impact of the trauma when a partner discovers his or her partner is cheating and what to do about it. "
Stefanie Carnes, Ph.D., has led numerous research projects on addiction and authored many publications including her nationally renowned books, Mending a Shattered Heart: A Guide for Partners of Sex Addicts,Facing Addiction andFacing Heartbreak: Steps to Recovery for Partners of Sex Addicts. Dr. Carnes is a Licensed Marriage and Famil...
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Title:Mending a Shattered Heart: A Guide for Partners of Sex AddictsFormat:PaperbackDimensions:220 pages, 9 × 6 × 0.87 inPublished:October 14, 2011Publisher:Gentle Path PressLanguage:English

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ISBN - 10:0982650590

ISBN - 13:9780982650592

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I'll never forget my friend's words when she uncovered her husband's sex addiction: "I felt like I was going through a shredder... backwards." Providing much-needed clarity and direction,Mending A Shattered Heart courageously meets and helps heal this addiction at the deep level it hits and hurts. Thank you Stefanie for removing the shame and giving the gift of grounded hope."-Melody Beattie, Author ofCodependent No More"A vitally important book written by highly experienced professionals!Mending A Shattered Heart will lessen the shame, provide clarity and direction and offer hope to the partners of sex addicts."-Claudia Black, PhD, Author ofIt Will Never Happen to Me "