A Slap in the Face: Why Insults Hurt - And Why They Shouldnt

Hardcover | February 5, 2013

byWilliam B. Irvine

not yet rated|write a review
Insults are part of the fabric of daily life. Other people inflict them on us, sometimes blatantly but more often subtly. On some occasions, we are delighted to be on the receiving end of these insults: when the members of a group we have joined start playfully teasing us, for example, it canbe a sign of acceptance into the group. On other occasions, though, an insult can cause us pain so intense that even years later, we will find ourselves experiencing insult flashbacks.We are also the source of insults. Some of them are consciously inflicted, but many more are sufficiently subtle that we will not recognize them for what they are unless we replay conversations in our head and try to fathom our motives for having said the things we said. Do this, and we might beastonished by our tendency, in casual conversation, to put people into what we regard as their proper place - namely, somewhere below us on the social hierarchy.In A Slap in the Face, William B. Irvine undertakes a wide-ranging investigation of insults, their history, the role they play in social relationships, and the science behind them. He offers advice, based primarily on the writings of the Stoic philosophers, on how best to curb our own insultingtendencies and how best to respond to the insults that are directed our way.

Pricing and Purchase Info

$21.90 online
$21.95 list price
In stock online
Ships free on orders over $25

From the Publisher

Insults are part of the fabric of daily life. Other people inflict them on us, sometimes blatantly but more often subtly. On some occasions, we are delighted to be on the receiving end of these insults: when the members of a group we have joined start playfully teasing us, for example, it canbe a sign of acceptance into the group. On o...

William B. Irvine is Professor of Philosophy at Wright State University in Dayton, Ohio. He describes himself as a twenty-first century Stoic and is author of A Guide to the Good Life: the Ancient Art of Stoic Joy and On Desire .

other books by William B. Irvine

A Guide to the Good Life: The Ancient Art of Stoic Joy
A Guide to the Good Life: The Ancient Art of Stoic Joy

Hardcover|Nov 29 2008

$19.75 online$21.95list price(save 10%)
On Desire: Why We Want What We Want
On Desire: Why We Want What We Want

Paperback|May 18 2007

$14.91 online$14.95list price
The Farmers in Politics
The Farmers in Politics

Hardcover|May 3 2016

$35.72 online$38.50list price(save 7%)
see all books by William B. Irvine
Format:HardcoverDimensions:288 pages, 7 × 5 × 0.98 inPublished:February 5, 2013Publisher:Oxford University PressLanguage:English

The following ISBNs are associated with this title:

ISBN - 10:0199934452

ISBN - 13:9780199934454

Look for similar items by category:

Customer Reviews of A Slap in the Face: Why Insults Hurt - And Why They Shouldnt

Reviews

Extra Content

Table of Contents

1. IntroductionPART ONE: THE INSULT ARSENAL2. Words like Daggers3. Subtle Digs4. Bludgeoned with Praise5. Benign InsultsPART TWO: INSULT PSYCHOLOGY6. A World of Hurt7. Who Gets Hurt?8. Why We InsultPART THREE: DEALING WITH INSULTS9. Personal Responses to Insults10. Societal Responses11. Insults - The Inner Game12. InsightsNotesWorks Cited