Achtung Baby: An American Mom On The German Art Of Raising Self-reliant Children by Sara ZaskeAchtung Baby: An American Mom On The German Art Of Raising Self-reliant Children by Sara Zaske

Achtung Baby: An American Mom On The German Art Of Raising Self-reliant Children

bySara Zaske

Hardcover | January 2, 2018

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An Entertaining, Enlightening Look at the Art of Raising Self-Reliant, Independent Children Based on One American Mom's Experiences in Germany

When Sara Zaske moved from Oregon to Berlin with her husband and toddler, she knew the transition would be challenging, especially when she became pregnant withher second child. She was surprised to discover that German parents give theirchildren a great deal of freedom-much more than Americans. In Berlin, kids walk to school by themselves, ride the subway alone, cut food with sharp knives, and even play with fire. German parents did not share her fears, and their children were thriving. Was she doing the opposite of what she intended, which was toraise capable children? Why was parenting culture so different in the States?

Through her own family's often funny experiences as well asinterviews with other parents, teachers, and experts, Zaske shares the many unexpected parenting lessons she learned from living in Germany. Achtung Baby reveals that today's Germans know something that American parents don't (or have perhaps forgotten) about raising kids with "selbstandigkeit" (self-reliance),and provides practical examples American parents can use to give their own children the freedom they need to grow into responsible, independent adults.

SARA ZASKE is an American writer who lived in Berlin for six and half years. Her articles on her family's experiences in Germany have appeared on, The New York Times, and Germany's largest Sunday paper, Bild am Sontag. She now lives in Idaho with her husband and two children.
Title:Achtung Baby: An American Mom On The German Art Of Raising Self-reliant ChildrenFormat:HardcoverDimensions:256 pages, 9.25 × 6.12 × 0.98 inPublished:January 2, 2018Publisher:PicadorLanguage:English

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ISBN - 10:1250160170

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Table of Contents


Introduction: Modern Germany
(Beyond the Stereotype; A Short Historical Update; The Culture of Control; and Why German Parenting Matters)

1 Leaving America
(A Cold Arrival; Everything in Order)

2 Berlin Babies
(Where Midwives Rule; The American Disadvantage; A Berlin Birth)

3 Attachment Problems
(German Parents and Attachment Theory; Independent Infants; Mother Knows Best?)

4 Small Children, Small Worries (Kleine Kinder, Kleine Sorgen)
(The Kindergarten East-West; Legacy; Early Kita Skills; Quality of Care; Child-Care Benefits)

5 The Democratic
(Kindergarten; Faster or Better Learning; Children in Charge; Discipline; Kita Trips; Teaching Kita Skills in the United States)

6 Starting School
(Play School; Educational Priorities; Homework, Food, and Protest)

7 No Bad Weather
(America Inside; Germans and Free Nature; Taking Away the Toys)

8 The Freedom to Move
(Why German Children Walk Alone; Freedom to Play)

9 Dangerous Things
(The Art of Fire; Tools; Adventure Play; Necessary Dangers; A Celebration of Fear)

10 Tough Subjects
(Death; Religion)

11 Facing the Past
(The History of Memory; Historic Crimes and Responsibility)

12 Big Kids, Big Worries (Grosse Kinder, Grosse Sorgen)
(The Space to Be Young; An Extra-Long Adolescence; The Academic Question; Achieving Adulthood)

13 Coming Back to America
(Starting American School; Fourth-Grade Blues; Freedom for Kids in the Land of the Free)

Epilogue: German Lessons
(The Rights of Children; Freedom of Ideas)


Editorial Reviews

"Supported by statistics and research studies, Zaske makes a strong argument that German parenting practices are creating smarter and more productive parents and children alike."-Publishers Weekly "An entertaining, informative, and enlightening narrative on the German methods of parenting that will have many in the U.S. reconsidering how they're raising their children."-Kirkus Reviews"Is it possible that much of what Americans believe about responsible parenthood, child safety, and the peculiar art of concerted cultivation stems not from reason but from blind adherence to custom and convention? With intelligence, humor, and a healthy dose of skepticism, Achtung Baby suggests it does. Contrasting American parenting with the less regimented German model, Zaske details her experience mothering in Germany to present a portrait of German-style parenting that is at once entertaining, surprising, and instructive. With curiosity and insight, she reveals how many of our parenting assumptions stem not from evidence but from insecurity and fear."-Kim Brooks, author of The Houseguest and Small Animals, and editor at"I was completely drawn into this marvelous account of how Zaske learned to trust her children and allow them the freedoms they craved. It is the story of one family and, at the same time, of childrens' and parents' lives in two huge modern nations. I recommend it to all American parents, educators, policymakers, and others concerned with children's lives and the future of our society."-Peter Gray, author of Free to Learn: How Releasing the Instinct to Play Will Make Our Children Happier, More Self-Reliant, and Better Students for Life"This is a beautiful book. Zaske uses her personal experience raising her children in Berlin to reveal the differences-fundamental and trivial, serious and humorous-between German and American parenting, finding lessons in the ways Germans rear their children from birth to adolescence. Zaske probes our cultural differences and mines the hard data to offer us her pungent observations. Her insights deserve our attention." -Robert LeVine, authorof Do Parents Matter?"If you're wondering where to find happy, normal, un-helicoptered children these days, theanswer is: Germany! Zaske looks to a land that trusts its youth, and lays out a smart, sensible path for raising resilient kids."-Lenore Skenazy, founder ofthe book, blog and movement, Free-Range Kids