All My Puny Sorrows by Miriam Toews

All My Puny Sorrows

byMiriam Toews

Kobo ebook | April 11, 2014

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SHORTLISTED 2014 – Scotiabank Giller Prize

Miriam Toews is beloved for her irresistible voice, for mingling laughter and heartwrenching poignancy like no other writer. In her most passionate novel yet, she brings us the riveting story of two sisters, and a love that illuminates life.

You won’t forget Elf and Yoli, two smart and loving sisters. Elfrieda, a world-renowned pianist, glamorous, wealthy, happily married: she wants to die. Yolandi, divorced, broke, sleeping with the wrong men as she tries to find true love: she desperately wants to keep her older sister alive. Yoli is a beguiling mess, wickedly funny even as she stumbles through life struggling to keep her teenage kids and mother happy, her exes from hating her, her sister from killing herself and her own heart from breaking.
But Elf’s latest suicide attempt is a shock: she is three weeks away from the opening of her highly anticipated international tour. Her long-time agent has been calling and neither Yoli nor Elf’s loving husband knows what to tell him. Can she be nursed back to “health” in time? Does it matter? As the situation becomes ever more complicated, Yoli faces the most terrifying decision of her life.
All My Puny Sorrows, at once tender and unquiet, offers a profound reflection on the limits of love, and the sometimes unimaginable challenges we experience when childhood becomes a new country of adult commitments and responsibilities. In her beautifully rendered new novel, Miriam Toews gives us a startling demonstration of how to carry on with hope and love and the business of living even when grief loads the heart.

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Title:All My Puny SorrowsFormat:Kobo ebookPublished:April 11, 2014Publisher:Knopf CanadaLanguage:English

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ISBN - 10:0345808029

ISBN - 13:9780345808028

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Rated 4 out of 5 by from Highly enjoyable, which is amazing given the topic Very captivating, a roller coaster of emotions, many Lol moments! I couldn't put it down. Right up there with A Complicated Kindness if not better.
Date published: 2015-10-21
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Superb This story comes from the heart of family love and loss. I am in awe of the talent of Ms Toews. She is stellar.
Date published: 2015-10-16
Rated 5 out of 5 by from fantastic Heartbreaking, poignant, funny, witty, what an amazing read. Toews is a modern master. A must read.
Date published: 2015-08-30
Rated 4 out of 5 by from All My Puny Sorrows An interesting first hand look at mental health issues and suicide in Canada. A somewhat unfair, stereotypical and narrow perspective of Mennonites. Many Mennonite churches are deeply involved in raising awareness of social, environmental and mental health issues. I did appreciate the humour and the Plattdeutsch. A good read which addresses the difficulty of dealing with mental health issues effectively.
Date published: 2015-08-18
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Wasn't sure..... I wasn't so sure at first. And, having list a loved one to suicide this felt at times a bit depressing. However, the quirky humour had me laughing in lots of places and I grew to love the characters. So glad I hung in there and finished it.
Date published: 2015-08-17
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Liked it! I really enjoyed this book - I felt it got a little bogged down in the middle, but I felt it sums up what living is all about!
Date published: 2015-07-03
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Gripping story An emotional ride involving family, relationships, mental illness and survival. The characters are so real and endearing. Skillfully written, I did not want the story to end. A must read.
Date published: 2015-06-06
Rated 3 out of 5 by from All My Puny Sorrows Overall a good book showing how no matter what we have in life... Mental health issues can still rear its ugly head. And no matter how much we want to save someone we can't if they don't want to save themselves.
Date published: 2015-05-27
Rated 3 out of 5 by from Very touching story - but a little tedious I found the story interesting and thought provoking but it went on and on - wandering and a bit hard to really get into.
Date published: 2015-04-25
Rated 4 out of 5 by from unique approach to dark topic works admirably Toews' unique writing style is what makes this difficult read not only bearable but dare I say, entertaining. But make no mistake, she does not make light of the topic. The writing - filled with puckish humour - enables the reader to gain some modicum of understanding of the pain and struggle not only of the protagonist - and all those who suffer her affliction - but her family, friends, and loved-ones. It is heart-wrenching, intensely realistic and leaves the reader deeply touched and slightly uplifted. Despite the seeming utter darkness...there is a tiny spot of light.
Date published: 2015-02-25
Rated 4 out of 5 by from All my Puny Sorrows Not as enjoyable as previous books but neither was the subject. Really love her subtle humor and sense of place. Good way to tackle a sensitive subject.
Date published: 2015-02-10
Rated 5 out of 5 by from All my puny sorrows Loved the humour, honesty, & snippets of Mennonite history - colorful writing which makes me want to read more of her books
Date published: 2014-12-28
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Moving, beautiful, funny, touching I bought this book because I have enjoyed all of the other books I have read by Miriam Toews and knew this would be a wonderful book. I was not, however, prepared by just how wonderful this book was. Ms. Toews has a style that is all her own and yet so inclusive you feel like you are living in a sort of parallel universe. Her narrative is such that, as I was reading some of the passages I could actually hear Yoli's voice and could have sworn it was my own. As they say in trite movie reviews, "I laughed, I cried, I cheered!" but I absolutely did all of those things. Thank you Miriam Toews for writing such a beautiful book which I realize could not have been easy to write, given that it is based on some of your personal history. In sharing what happened with you and your family, you have probably helped many, not just with the subject of people "killing by their own hand" but also that surrounding family dynamics of not just a family faced with suicide but a family that is faced with real life. I love your writing Miriam Toews and I wish I could be you when I grow up (I'm 53 now! haha!!) Thanks again, Happy Holidays and please keep writing. you do it so very well. Anne Creelman, Haliburton, ON
Date published: 2014-12-18
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Beautiful and Heartbreaking Toews navigates the delicate subjects of suicide and the right to die with her signature grace and humour, a feat even more laudable when you learn that this novel is highly autobiographical. While the novel is heartbreaking, Yoli's love for her family stuck with me, even after I finished the book, so what lingers is the memory of love rather than grief. A beautiful novel.
Date published: 2014-11-12
Rated 5 out of 5 by from All My Puny Sorrows A great insight into what a person contemplating suicide feels. The rational and the suffering came alive. Being one to try and prevent versus helping to accomplish the death was poignant from the sister's viewpoint. A great read.
Date published: 2014-11-08
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Latest read A sad subject but I really enjoyed the characters and the humour.
Date published: 2014-11-05
Rated 4 out of 5 by from 24 hours after finishing this book I am still shaken Suicide and depression, those oft-choked nuggets of contemporary literature, are a tricky terrain but one Toevs maneuvers deftly. The ache and anger of the people left to witness and endure are not wrought darkly but honestly and precisely, tempered with the shocks of humor and relief we experience when confronted by life's inevitable finality, self-inflicted or not.
Date published: 2014-10-30
Rated 4 out of 5 by from All My Puny Sorrows Powerful novel by one of my favourite Canadian authors.
Date published: 2014-09-08
Rated 4 out of 5 by from All my puny sorrows Actually, I loved to bits all the characters in this novel. Toews really is magical in her ability to create wonderful characters who I wished alternatively to rescue and to scorn. A lovely read.
Date published: 2014-07-08
Rated 4 out of 5 by from All My Puny Sorrows A touching and realistic story of the love between sisters.
Date published: 2014-06-19