Becoming An Ex: The Process of Role Exit by Helen Rose Fuchs EbaughBecoming An Ex: The Process of Role Exit by Helen Rose Fuchs Ebaugh

Becoming An Ex: The Process of Role Exit

byHelen Rose Fuchs Ebaugh

Paperback | June 15, 1988

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The experience of becoming an ex is common to most people in modern society. Unlike individuals in earlier cultures who usually spent their entire lives in one marriage, one career, one religion, one geographic locality, people living in today's world tend to move in and out of many roles in the course of a lifetime. During the past decade there has been persistent interest in these "passages" or "turning points," but very little research has dealt with what it means to leave behind a major role or incorporate it into a new identity. Helen Rose Fuchs Ebaugh's pathbreaking inquiry into the phenomenon of becoming an ex reveals the profundity of this basic aspect of establishing an identity in contemporary life.

Ebaugh is herself an ex, having left the life of a Catholic nun to become a wife, mother, and professor of sociology. Drawing on interviews with 185 people, Ebaugh explores a wide range of role changes, including ex-convicts, ex-alcoholics, divorced people, mothers without custody of their children, ex-doctors, ex-cops, retirees, ex-nuns, and—perhaps most dramatically—transsexuals. As this diverse sample reveals, Ebaugh focuses on voluntary exits from significant roles. What emerges are common stages of the role exit process—from disillusionment with a particular identity, to searching for alternative roles, to turning points that trigger a final decision to exit, and finally to the creation of an identify as an ex.

Becoming an Ex is a challenging and influential study that will be of great interest to sociologists, mental health counselors, members of self-help groups such as Alcoholics Anonymous and Parents Without Partners, those in corporate settings where turnover has widespread implications for the organization, and for anyone struggling through a role exit who is trying to establish a new sense of self.
Helen Rose Fuchs Ebaugh, professor and department chair of sociology at the University of Houston, is the author of Out of the Cloister.
Title:Becoming An Ex: The Process of Role ExitFormat:PaperbackDimensions:268 pages, 8.48 × 5.6 × 0.8 inPublished:June 15, 1988Publisher:University Of Chicago Press

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ISBN - 10:0226180700

ISBN - 13:9780226180700

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Rated 4 out of 5 by from Classic Ebaughs book gives a good overview over the subject of role exit. If your into sociology this is a book you must have in your collection =)
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Table of Contents

Foreword by Robert K. Merton
1. Defining the Issues
2. First Doubts
3. Seeking Alternatives
4. The Turning Point
5. Creating the Ex-Role
6. Summary and Conclusions
Epilogue: Applied Settings
Appendix A: Demographic Characteristics of the Sample
Appendix B: The Therapeutic Impact of the Information Interview
Name Index
Subject Index

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Exploring a wide range of role changes, Ebaugh focuses on voluntary exits from significant roles and the common stages--from disillusionment with a particular identity to search for alternative roles to turning points and finally to the creation of an identity as an ex