Breaking Through Betrayal: and Recovering the Peace Within, 2nd Edition by Holli KenleyBreaking Through Betrayal: and Recovering the Peace Within, 2nd Edition by Holli Kenley

Breaking Through Betrayal: and Recovering the Peace Within, 2nd Edition

byHolli Kenley

Paperback | January 18, 2016

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Are you ready to heal?
Breaking Through Betrayal: And Recovering the Peace Within is for any individual who has experienced betrayal and is struggling to break through its bonds. Through a proven process tailored for recovery from betrayal injury, readers are invited to:

  • Explore and connect with the different kinds of betrayal: rejection or abandonment; a violation of trust; a shattered truth or belief.
  • Identify and move through betrayal's three States of Being - confusion, worthlessness, and powerlessness - while uncovering contributors of symptom intensity and duration.
  • Revive and restore mind, body, and spirit with a 5-part recovering process for "righting oneself" and attend to re-occurrence or re-injury.

    New in this Second Edition of Breaking Through Betrayal, readers are offered a unique perspective on a timeless topic -- relapse. By reframing relapse as a familiar experience and redefining it as an issue of self-betrayal, readers are:
  • Drawn into a safe conversation while breaking through the stigma, secrecy, and shame of returning to any kind of unhealthy pattern of thinking, behaving, or feeling.
  • Invited to partake in an empowering 6-part recovering process in moving from self-betrayal to self-discovery.

Therapists Praise Breaking Through Betrayal
"Useful for anyone caught in self-blame, shame or repeated victimization...this empowering 'in-control' approach can help readers take charge, assess injury, gauge healing and find excellent strategies to protect themselves from future trauma when relating to one's betrayer."
--Beth Hedva, Ph.D. author of award-winning Betrayal, Trust and Forgiveness

"Holli Kenley shares her comprehensive approach to a situation most of us experience at least once in our lifetimes - betrayal. As a former therapist, I appreciate the author's ability to take a complex topic and turn it into an uncomplicated and well-organized read, including easy-to-follow exercises at the end of each chapter. This book is an important resource for anyone experiencing grief and loss as the result of betrayal. Read it and 'recover the peace within.'"
--Janet A. Hopkins, Editor-in-Chief, In Recovery Magazine

About the Author
Holli Kenley, M.A., is a California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Specializing in the areas of sexual trauma, abuse, addiction, codependency, betrayal and cyber bullying, Holli currently works in the field of psychology as an author, speaker, and workshop presenter.
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Title:Breaking Through Betrayal: and Recovering the Peace Within, 2nd EditionFormat:PaperbackDimensions:242 pages, 9.69 × 7.44 × 0.51 inPublished:January 18, 2016Publisher:Loving Healing PressLanguage:English

The following ISBNs are associated with this title:

ISBN - 10:1615992855

ISBN - 13:9781615992850


Editorial Reviews

"BTB [It] belongs in the libraries of mental health practitioners, people who suffer or have suffered from betrayal and those who monitor intriguing and promising emergent ideas in psychotherapy and clinical psychology" Sam Vaknin , author"This empowering in-control approach can help readers take charge, assess injury, gauge healing and find excellent strategies to protect themselves from future trauma." Beth Hedva, Ph. D"Holli Kenley [She] is able to guide us through the pain of awareness and feelings with compassion and insight , and develops solutions, hope and growth that is needed to go beyond the victim and survivor roles." Melissay Yarbray, MA, MFT"The second edition of Breaking Through Betrayal offers an empathic, insightful and compassionate look at the universal pain of betrayal and relapse [and] includes restorative practices that lead to increased hope and resiliency." Rajani Venkatraman Levis, LMFT, PPS, CTSs "Holli shares her insights about relapse in a distinctive manner with clearly defined concepts and activities to engage the reader and further their learning. Betrayal and Relapse [Section IV} is a must read for anyone experiencing relapse." Cathy Taughinbaugh, Certified Parent Coach"Holli Kenley is on a mission to heal the pain and shame associated with relapse. She [Holli] will guide you to a place of healing and understanding. If you are ready to embrace the gift of self-discovery, Breaking Through Betrayal was written for you." Dawn Clancy, Writer & International Speaker "Holli Kenley's book offers its read a journey which travels from self-acknowledgment to self-forgiveness and reframing instruction to elicit creative healing. Read it for yourself or gift it to someone who is reaching for freedom from the pangs of betrayal." Barbara Sinor, Ph. D