Families We Choose: Lesbians, Gays, Kinship by Kath WestonFamilies We Choose: Lesbians, Gays, Kinship by Kath Weston

Families We Choose: Lesbians, Gays, Kinship

byKath Weston

Paperback | October 15, 1997

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This classic text, originally published in 1991 and now revised and updated to include a new preface, draws upon fieldwork and interviews to explore the ways gay men and lesbians are constructing their own notions of kinship by drawing on the symbolism of love, friendship, and biology.

Kath Weston is associate professor of anthropology at Arizona State University West in Phoenix.
Title:Families We Choose: Lesbians, Gays, KinshipFormat:PaperbackDimensions:288 pages, 8.75 × 1 × 0.68 inPublished:October 15, 1997Publisher:Columbia University Press

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ISBN - 10:0231110936

ISBN - 13:9780231110938

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Table of Contents

Preface to the Paperback EditionAcknowledgments1.The Monkey Cage and the Red Desoto2. Exiles from KinshipIs Straight to Gay as Family Is to No Family? Deck the HallsKinship and ProcreationFrom Biology to Choice3. Coming Out to "Blood" RelativesDisclosing Sexual IdentityCategorical Understandings (Or, It's All Relative)Family-Which Family?Conditional LoveDiscursive LocationsTaking Identity, Talking KinshipSelection and Rejection4. Kinship and Coherence: Ten Stories5. Families We ChooseBuilding Gay FamiliesSubstitute for Biological Family?Friends and LoversFrom Friendship to CommunityDeliberating Difference6. Lovers Through the Looking GlassThe Looking-Glass OtherPower "Differentials," Relationship "Roles"The Urge to MergeNarcissism, Kinship, and Class ConvictionsCouples Versus CommunityReflections on Metaphor7. Parenting in the Age of AIDSThe Lesbian Mother as IconMale-Female Revisited: Insemination and AIDSOf Death and BirthBlood Relatives RespondParents and Persons8. The Politics of Gay FamiliesAssimilation or Transformation?Common GroundThe Big PictureReengineering BiogeneticsAppendixNotesReferencesIndex

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