How Happy To Be by Katrina OnstadHow Happy To Be by Katrina Onstad

How Happy To Be

byKatrina Onstad

Paperback | January 3, 2006

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Sharp, urban, witty, wise — this sparkling debut is the thinking woman’s answer to chick lit Maxime is an entertainment writer at a flailing neo-con newspaper. She’s been dining out too long, literally and figuratively, on a culture of celebrity worship and empty punditry. She seeks refuge from her better judgment in endless parties, ritual substance abuse, and half-hearted attempts to get herself fired, but in a libertarian newsroom where outrageous spin is the easiest way to sell papers, her bad-girl behaviour just wins her more accolades.

Along this path of self-destruction, Max’s past, comic and poignant, keeps intruding: memories of her mother’s brutal death and her hippie father’s crippling breakdown; the reappearance of an aging vegan idealist who briefly played her stepmom on the West Coast commune where she came of age; tender realizations about the bad artist she was supposed to marry and a long-lost boyfriend who seems exotically sane. When a host of prior indiscretions finally catches up with her, Maxime realizes that any chance at happiness depends on uncovering, at last, her one true story.

Set during the madness of the Toronto International Film Festival and weaving back and forth between Max’s commune past and her newsroom present, How Happy to Be portrays with razor-sharp insight and bittersweet wit a modern woman’s descent into — and eventual escape from — the deafening pop culture noise of the early twenty-first century. Intelligent, savvy, this novel marks the arrival of a remarkable new fiction talent.
Katrina Onstad is a film and culture writer for CBC Arts Online and has had her work published internationally. She was formerly the National Post film columnist. Katrina Onstad lives in Toronto.
Title:How Happy To BeFormat:PaperbackDimensions:304 pages, 8.4 × 5.4 × 1 inPublished:January 3, 2006Publisher:McClelland & StewartLanguage:English

The following ISBNs are associated with this title:

ISBN - 10:0771068972

ISBN - 13:9780771068973


Rated 5 out of 5 by from I couldn't put this down! i read this book in one go while on vacation. I would highly recommend it for the twenty something crowd! Katrina is witty and sarcastic. I loved it!
Date published: 2011-11-01
Rated 2 out of 5 by from Depressing yet well written This is a well written novel that is a realistic version of the chick lit novel. It would definitely appeal to women over the age of 20 but under 40. It's almost a coming of age novel type of novel where the main character figures out what happiness is to her while battling her way through our materialistic "results oriented" society. One warning: this novel is very raw in its style and at times is severely depressing; however, it's quite a good reflection of our society and its values.
Date published: 2006-07-17
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Don't be fooled, not Chick Lit. This novel pleasantly surprised me. Ms. Onstad has written a stylish and hip little love story that also skewers big city journalism and the Toronto International Film Festival. The characters are very human and I found myself liking each of them. I can’t wait to see more from this up and coming new talent.
Date published: 2006-07-06
Rated 1 out of 5 by from Awful It pains me to write this as I like to read and promote Canadian authors as much as possible. There are such great writers writing terrific books in this country, however, this writer and her book is not one of them. How Happy to Be is one of the worse books I have ever read (and I have read a lot!). The main character is so unlikable I felt myself hoping she would get fired, Theo would learn to hate her. I couldn't wait to finish it and am even contemplating returning it. I can't believe I wasted my time reading this horrible book.
Date published: 2006-03-11
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Smart and funny! Highly recommended I just got my copy today and I highly recommend this book. Some very funny parts and the inside look at the entertainment world is interesting. But the book is more than that. Some of what she writes about relationships is really great and thought provoking. Too late for Christmas but it would make a great present for any smart women you know.
Date published: 2006-01-04

Read from the Book

After she died, everything tasted worse. unlike my father, my mother had no contempt for the occasional dinner in a tinfoil tray, clean borders between tastes. I would imitate her walk down the frozen food aisle, breath frosting the air, hips sliding, shoulders back. A walk I only later recognized as sexy when I saw it worn by movie stars playing cocktail waitresses.When she was gone, my father kept his eyes on the road and drove his truck straight past the glass spaceship super-market. He parked outside the health food store where walls and food were brown and moist. Pushing through the door was like stepping inside a redwood tree, all flesh and fibre. My dad wandered off by himself to finger the herbal teas and sugar cane, distracted and drifting, as if these foods were the source of all his sadness. He would look up, eyes running, unable to choose. So it was left to me, eight years old, to fill worn plastic containers with peanut butter and honey that lived in white tubs. But our old containers once held feta and butter and applesauce, and the system bred disappointment. Later, looking for the bumpy sweetness of jam, you ended up with yogurt, mean and tart. Longing for yogurt, you gagged on ropy tahini.After my mother died, bread got crunchier and the house got messier and then we left Squamish, British Columbia, to see the country, driving east to Newfoundland until the edge and the water and then we turned around and went back west. We finally stopped at the Gambier Island compound, almost to the highway’s end, a boat ride from Vancouver, where there ­wasn’t a house at all but a monastery that resembled a roadside motel. A handful of soldiers had come back from the Second World War with Tibetan texts in hand, claiming a corner of the island. Unbothered by the farmers who lived there, they spent their mornings in walking meditation, barefoot up and down a beach so rocky their soles bled.Two decades later, the hippies marched in, crossing water to escape the city. The soldier-­monks packed boxes of burgundy robes and headed north, out of earshot of the rumble. To them, the Sixties must have sounded like a couple arguing down the street; the window’s open and the noise gets closer and louder and closer and even though they swear it’s just a friendly conversation, it sounds like yelling to you.The new arrivals made a compound out of the empty buildings and called it a commune. Our dinnertime, once set for three, became a long Formica table occupied by other people’s children. We slept in monks’ barracks, kids above and kids below in bunk beds and hammocks, swinging in space.My father faded out gradually, escaping to the woods for days at a time, though this was nothing new. He half-­built a yurt, then gave up on pastimes and slept a lot. I was schooled in the gutted prayer hall and sulked in the classrooms, which ­weren’t classrooms at all but circles of stained throw pillows on cement floors. Other people’s mothers passing out finger­paints and encouragement.

Bookclub Guide

1. How Happy to Be begins in the melancholy childhood aftermath of Maxime’s mother’s death but quickly switches to Maxime’s present-day world of hangovers and men she calls “Ad Sales” and “Knee-Socks Steve,” revealing how the character masks her unease and fear of intimacy as an adult. How does the tone differ between the two eras throughout the story, and how did the author transition between these two Maximes?2. On the surface, Maxime is a caustic, drug- and drink-dependent entertainment reporter, while the man from the past who reappears, Theo McArdle, is an outdoorsy, amiable physicist researching “what makes up the universe.” (p.41) Their past attraction seems to rekindle itself. Maxime is impressed by Theo’s work and by his teaching stint in Africa, but what impresses Theo about Maxime? Is his attraction to her based solely on the young woman he once knew at university? How can we read past Maxime’s version of herself to see what Theo sees?3. What are the layers of meaning in the title How Happy to Be, and what does Maxime reveal to us when she says that she and her ex-boyfriend John “could never decide how happy to be”? (p.190) How do you interpret Maxime’s reaction to the L.A. screenwriter’s philosophy of unhappiness — that “all of us are shying away from intimacy … using clever cynical devices”? (p.233)4. How does Katrina Onstad manage to create an aura of vulnerability around the celebrities Maxime interviews, despite her character’s seeming contempt or even pity for the rich and famous? How do you interpret Maxime’s growing disillusion with the movies she reviews and the celebrities who star in them? In what ways does Maxime approach her own life as if it were a movie?5. The novel is set in both Toronto and a fictional island off Vancouver’s coast, but does the story seem Canadian to you, for reasons other than geography? How does place play a role in the story, and what do you make of the author’s depiction of Toronto, and the city’s impact on Maxime? Why does Maxime say, towards the end of the book, that she misses the city?6. Katrina Onstad was herself a film critic at a newspaper and in this novel has both satirized her experiences during a particular era of journalistic trends and extrapolated from archetypes to create new fictional characters and situations. Writer and artist Douglas Coupland describes the novel as “the magic place between fact and fiction.” What is the responsibility of a writer in finding that place?7. Maxime remembers that when her mother was dying, her father began “rebuilding her with his stories,” and that this made him seem “like a liar” (p.142) in her child’s perspective. However, throughout the novel, Maxime brings our attention to several embellishments of her own. How does the author shape this seeming contradiction? Why do you think Maxime continues to tell untruths about her past, even to Franny as the two of them talk about their dead parents? How is this an extension of how her father talked about her mother or how adults piece together the parent they knew only as a child? What does this reveal about how we all construct memory?8. One of the most heartbreaking passages in the novel involves the Guatemalan woman Mercy and her daughter Maria, who are strangers to Maxime. How is this story — so brief and yet so full — integral to the novel, and why do you think Maxime questions its veracity when Mercy leaves the streetcar? Can you find other passages in which Maxime cuts short a poignant moment? What do you think the author is showing us about Maxime’s emotional state? How does trust feature in Maxime’s life?9. Maxime tells us, “My mother … moved waterbug fast, but my father dove down deep into himself.” (p.271) How is Maxime like each of her parents, and is she aware of the similarities?10. Maxime is impressed by Franny’s capacity for forgiveness and realizes Theo and Elaine share this same elusive quality. Are there other characters you could group by strength or weakness?11. What is it that gives Maxime a special connection to Franny, long before she meets her? What is the significance of Maxime’s father ending up with Dolores, Franny’s mother?12. During her unhappy adolescence, Maxime steals away from school to a movie theatre, and is eventually found by her frantic father. Later in the book, the author pens a near-mirror scene, but how does Maxime’s “escape” and the rescue by her father differ from the earlier scene? Beyond its physical risks, how is this last journey both dangerous and necessary for Maxime?13. How is the notion of home explored throughout the story? Think of Maxime’s childhood homes, her apartment in Toronto, Sunera’s mother’s house, etc. Remember, too, that Maxime’s father builds various dwelling-like structures throughout the book. How does the playhouse for Franny take on special significance, twice, as a container for a family?14. What do you think finally allows Maxime to come to terms with her past? Discuss the scene in which Max and her father take her mother’s ashes to the water. (p.276-279) What surprises her about her father’s behaviour? Similarly, what surprises her about her own behaviour when Theo arrives at Elaine’s? Who do you think Maxime is addressing on the last page of the novel?

Editorial Reviews

“Pop culture geeks will go nuts for Onstad’s brutal dissection of the life of a media whore. . . . A triumph.” — NOW Magazine“Katrina Onstad’s How Happy to Be is an acerbic, hilarious and culturally astute page-turner of a debut.” — Flare“Young women will relate profoundly and personally . . . . A working woman’s Nick Hornby, Onstad has created a pithy, poppy text about being adrift.” — Globe and Mail“Katrina Onstad’s debut novel is wickedly funny, with a biting edge that makes How Happy to Be a must-read for those cold winter nights.” — Weekly Scoop“A deft meditation on nostalgia, grieving and familial relations. . . .Fresh, compelling and flawless.” — Toronto Star“[An] ambitious and impressive first novel . . . intelligent and arresting. An auspicious literary debut.” — National Post“Witty. . . fine writing.” — Montreal Gazette“How Happy to Be successfully mixes funny and frothy chick-lit scenarios with an ambitious emotional reckoning.” — Fashion Magazine“Katrina Onstad finds that magic place between fact and fiction and charms the reader with her discovery. A wonderful book.”—Douglas Coupland“Katrina Onstad writes poignantly about the failed ideals of one generation and the lack of ideals in this one. From communes to movie stars, this book is an act of redemption, one that is funny, wise and honest.”—David Layton“Katrina Onstad offers a sharp, new edge to the Canadian literary landscape. How Happy to Be jumps out at the reader with a hip, ironic voice that offers a poignant mixture of sassy humour and raw exploration of human alienation.” —Lawrence Hill