No One's the Bitch: A Ten-Step Plan for the Mother and Stepmother Relationship by Jennifer Newcomb MarineNo One's the Bitch: A Ten-Step Plan for the Mother and Stepmother Relationship by Jennifer Newcomb Marine

No One's the Bitch: A Ten-Step Plan for the Mother and Stepmother Relationship

byJennifer Newcomb Marine, Carol Marine, Jim Ottaway

Paperback | May 5, 2009

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One of three Americans is today a stepparent, a stepchild, or a stepsibling. That means there are lots of stepmothers and ex-wives out there wrestling with resentment, jealousy, anxiety, anger, and despair over their relationship with the "other woman" in their life. That's where stepmother/ex-wife team extraordinaire Jennifer Newcomb Marine and Carol Marine step in. No One's the Bitch is their straight-talking, handholding walk through what is typically a very lonely minefield. Whether women just want to create a neutral, "business" partnership or actually, gulp, to become friends, this book shows them how to reach their goal through ten powerful steps, with chapter titles such as "Own Your Own Crap," "Collaborate," and "Communicate." The authors also recount their own journey, providing ample hope and reassurance to all women struggling to keep a blended family together.
Jennifer Newcomb Marine (the ex-wife) is a freelance essayist and editor who was a former columnist for, an award-winning website. Her work has been published in the anthology Grrl Talk: Wit, Sass and Wisdom from the Austin Writergrrls and in the Farfelu Literary Review. She has worked as a grant writer, business staff w...
Title:No One's the Bitch: A Ten-Step Plan for the Mother and Stepmother RelationshipFormat:PaperbackProduct dimensions:256 pages, 8.5 × 5.5 × 0.68 inShipping dimensions:8.5 × 5.5 × 0.68 inPublished:May 5, 2009Publisher:Globe Pequot PressLanguage:English

The following ISBNs are associated with this title:

ISBN - 10:0762750936

ISBN - 13:9780762750931


Read from the Book

From the IntroductionIt's a nasty word, bitch. It's one thing if you're standing up in the face of injustice to do the right thing-who cares if anyone thinks you're a bitch? But being thought of as bitch in general is another thing altogether. No one wants that. And yet, here's the setup between ex-wife and stepmother: The other woman, no matter which side you start from, is automatically a bitch. . . . And isn't it irritating to know the other side is almost certainly calling you a bitch?! . . . We've figured out a way to do it otherwise. We don't know everything, but we do know a few things. And we'd like to tell you about them.

Editorial Reviews

"A really interesting walkthrough; a ten-step plan that's well thought-out and experience-based...a giant step in resolving this problem"- Dr. Phil McGraw, on "The Dr. Phil Show" / December 1, 2009 "Bitch is a worthy, energetic workbook . . . Chatty and funny, it provides useful ideas (e.g., make small offerings) and sound how-to (e.g., greet each other when the kids swap houses)." - Library Journal"These straight-shooting, truth-talking, soul-baring women have their priorities right: When mom and stepmom are on the same page everyone wins, most especially the kids! If more parents could do as authors Jennifer and Carol have done, our courts would be far emptier, our kids would be far healthier and and all of our futures would be brighter!"- Benjamin D. Garber, Ph.D.,, author of Keeping Kids Out Of The Middle