NOT "Just Friends": Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity by Jean Coppock Staeheli

NOT "Just Friends": Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity

byJean Coppock Staeheli, Shirley Glass, Ph.D.

Kobo ebook | November 1, 2007

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One of the world’s leading experts on infidelity provides a step-by-step guide through the process of infidelity—from suspicion and revelation to healing, and provides profound, practical guidance to prevent infidelity and, if it happens, recover and heal from it.

You’re right to be cautious when you hear these words: “I’m telling you, we’re just friends.”

Good people in good marriages are having affairs. The workplace and the Internet have become fertile breeding grounds for “friendships” that can slowly and insidiously turn into love affairs. Yet you can protect your relationship from emotional or sexual betrayal by recognizing the red flags that mark the stages of slipping into an improper, dangerous intimacy that can threaten your marriage.

Title:NOT "Just Friends": Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After InfidelityFormat:Kobo ebookPublished:November 1, 2007Publisher:Free PressLanguage:English

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ISBN - 10:1416586407

ISBN - 13:9781416586401

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Rated 5 out of 5 by from Before you see a marriage therapist, read this book! I was recommended the book “After the Affair” by my marriage counselor. In reading reviews of that book and this one, I decided to buy this one as well. It is far more helpful than “After the Affair”. I find it more objective with increased peer research citings, not just anecdotal citings. The examples provided in this book feel more authentic and substantial. My marriage counselor practically quotes this book in sessions... maybe that’s why he recommended the other book - hoping I wouldn’t notice. This book has actually been more helpful than the counselor, I think, for significantly less cost. It is a very good place to start for anyone that has uncovered infidelity in your relationship. By the time I received this book, I was already in the stages described up to Part IV. It was such a relief to read that all the stages I had gone through already were normal and expected. She walks you through all of it in an even, balanced way. I’m halfway through the book and can already tell the activities of “The Healing Process” will be beneficial to my relationship and restoring the trust. I will say, this book (and any book like this) is geared towards people who are committed to rebuilding the relationship. If you have already decided to part ways, this is not the book you need. If that’s the case, just need a really good lawyer.
Date published: 2018-08-02