How To Give Her Absolute Pleasure: Totally Explicit Techniques Every Woman Wants Her Man To Know by Lou PagetHow To Give Her Absolute Pleasure: Totally Explicit Techniques Every Woman Wants Her Man To Know by Lou Paget

How To Give Her Absolute Pleasure: Totally Explicit Techniques Every Woman Wants Her Man To Know

byLou Paget

Hardcover | January 11, 2000

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What, and where, is the G-spot? Where do women like to be touched, and how? For every man who's hungry to please the woman he adores, a refreshingly modern, tastefully explicit, and totally honest guide to giving your woman absolute pleasure.

Millions of men out there are looking for the real scoop on what women like, and want to learn how to really "rub them the right way," but are either afraid to ask or don't know where to look.  And millions of women are looking for ways to tell men what really turns them on, but don't know how to put their desires into words.

Well, search no further!  How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure will take you to another level as a lover, providing you with the proven techniques and explicit advice that have made author Lou Paget one of the world's most respected and sought-after sexuality experts.

Based on the secrets shared by hundreds of men and women in Lou's enormously popular Sexuality Seminars, How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure gives the true scoop on what women really like, and why, along with detailed surefire techniques guaranteed to drive any girl wild.  Packed with little-known details and steamy tips and tricks--from the nooks and crannies of a woman's body to the fine "art of tongue"--How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure removes the mystery from woman's sexuality and shows you how to enhance your bedroom expertise. With tips on creating the ideal romantic atmosphere, finding her elusive erogenous zones (there are more than you'd think), and mastering the delicate art of foreplay, Lou provides the down-and-dirty details on the ins and outs of amazing oral and manual sex, innovative intercourse positions, and most important, how to capture the big O.

Complete with over seventy step-by-step illustrations, as well as a catalog of sex toys and tips on how to use them, How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure is a refreshingly straightforward, always stimulating guide that will take you and your partner to new levels of ecstasy and intimacy.
Combining fifteen years of sexuality research with her experience as a sex educator, Lou Paget is the author of the acclaimed sex guide for women How to be a Great Lover, and is the instructor and founder of the nationally recognized and wildly popular Sexuality Seminars.  Lou has appeared in Cosmopolitan, Marie Claire, and Redbook. Sh...
Title:How To Give Her Absolute Pleasure: Totally Explicit Techniques Every Woman Wants Her Man To KnowFormat:HardcoverDimensions:256 pages, 8.6 × 5.8 × 0.8 inPublished:January 11, 2000Publisher:Potter/TenSpeed/HarmonyLanguage:English

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ISBN - 10:0767904524

ISBN - 13:9780767904520

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Rated 5 out of 5 by from Great Book. This book cover just about everything that a men need to know about satisfying his partner/spouse. However, I bought this book back in 2005, but the book was written in 2000. For those who may consider experimentating with toys, you might want to consider the NJOY STEEL DILDOS -- They're wonderful toys, but they were released back in 2005 (after the book was released)
Date published: 2009-09-30
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Fantastic Great Read! I highly suggest this to be a first choice when looking for information or even fun ideas. Whether your new at sex, or just looking to update your skills, and knowledge, its an excellent go to book for men to read. Its funny, Itellegent, and written by a woman who knows what women want.
Date published: 2008-01-24
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Spice and Sugar and Everything Explicit This book gave me the dirty details on what my woman wanted. Before she would moan because she was grumpy, but now she moans out of joy. This book has many exciting positions and techniques, that will have you making love 24/7. Instead of making love twice a week, we do it twice a day. I hope this book does the same thing to you, that it did for me. Spice up your sex life, and sprinkle sugar on your bedroom door.
Date published: 2005-12-11
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Women, buy this book for your man! After having read How to be a Great Lover by Paget I had to go out and buy this book for my significant other...Finally a book that tells men what women REALLY want...An extremely good investment for adding some spice to your sex life (I know it did for mine!).
Date published: 2001-05-15

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You Asked for ItI can still remember when I realized how frustrated men were about sex.  The turning point was one particular night about four years ago.  It was a Saturday in late May, and I had just arrived at a friend's house for a dinner party.  I had been tied up in traffic on the freeway and was the last guest to arrive.  I was already tired and had lost my enthusiasm for the party, making an effort to be polite, charming, and upbeat.  I sat down next to a gentleman who looked to be in his early forties and introduced myself.  We got to talking and he told me that he was a television producer.  He then asked what I did.  For a moment, I felt myself begin to blush, and then I went for it.  I should not have felt embarassed or hesitant to say what I do after having done it for three years at that point, but I had found myself already feeling a bit shy.  I then said to him, as demurely as possible, "Well, I give sex seminars to women."  Without skipping a beat, he looked straight at me and asked, "Well, do you give them to men, too?  We need them!"In an instant it dawned on me that men, like women, are not only curious about sex, but feel confined or restricted by what they know and do not know.  The more I began to listen and talk to men, the more I realized that most men seem to think and feel that they are expected to already know everything there is to know about sex, as if the information is tied to their Y chromosome, which neatly and completely surfaces with the first hair on their chin.  The more I thought about it, I realized that men are actually acculturated to know all about sex--what works, feels the best--both for themselves and for the women they're with.  Whereas it's all right for women not to know, many men feel enormous pressure to possess an encyclopedic knowledge of all things sexual.  This is not only an enormous falsehood but also an unfair burden for men.The solution to this problem is simple.  First, men need to be granted the permission to ask questions about what they don't know or are not comfortable with regarding sex.  Second, and perhaps more important, men need to realize that all women are different and therefore require different treatment.  There is no possible way to know what works best for a woman without asking her.  Finally, men need to realize that the onus of sex does not fall solely on men.  Both men and women should be responsible for learning and then knowing about how to please one another.  If these factors are in place, any man can beome an expert lover.

From Our Editors

See Lou Paget's other bestselling title, How to be a Great LoverMost men claim they know how to please a woman, but many of the women these same men are with will disagree. Now you can improve your sexual knowledge — and performance — with How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure: Totally Explicit Techniques Every Woman Wants Her Man to Know. In this book, Lou Paget provides readers with step-by-step techniques that will have men taking their partner to new heights of excitement. Paget describes amazing oral and manual sex techniques, how to use sex toys properly and how to find her erogenous zones.  

Editorial Reviews

Advance Praise for How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure:"How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure is based on what real men really want to know!"--Barbara Keesling, Ph.D., author of Getting Close and Sexual Healing"How To Give Her Absolute Pleasure is the quintessential guide to women's bodies and what they want sexually.  Couples will have more exciting and more fulfilling sex because of Lou Paget's clear, step-by-step suggestions.  Every man who wants to satisfy his woman should study this wonderfully informative book."--Bernie Zilbergeld, author of The New Male SexualityPraise for How To Be A Great Lover:"An eye-opener . . . I was suitably impressed that this book didn't shy away from recommending a full range of sexual techniques."--Susie Bright, Salon magazine