Searching the Heart: Women, Men, and Romantic Love in Nineteenth-Century America by Karen LystraSearching the Heart: Women, Men, and Romantic Love in Nineteenth-Century America by Karen Lystra

Searching the Heart: Women, Men, and Romantic Love in Nineteenth-Century America

byKaren Lystra

Paperback | April 1, 1993

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In January 1862, Charles Godwin courted Harriet Russell, ultimately unsuccessfully, with the following lines: "Like cadences of inexpressibly sweet music, your kind words came to me: causing every nerve to vibrate as though electrified by some far off strain of heavenly harmony." Almostten years later, Albert Janin, upon receiving a letter from his beloved Violet Blair, responded with, "I kissed your letter over and over again, regardless of the small-pox epidemic at New York, and gave myself up to a carnival of bliss before breaking the envelope." And in October 1883, DorotheaLummis wrote candidly to her husband Charles, "I like you to want me, dear, and if I were only with you, I would embrace more than the back of your neck, be sure." In Karen Lystra's richly provocative book, Searching the Heart, we hear the voices of Charles, Albert, Dorothea, and nearly one hundred other nineteenth-century Americans emerge from their surprisingly open, intimate, and emotional love letters. While historians of nineteenth-century Americahave explored a host of private topics, including courtship, marriage, birth control, sexuality, and sex roles, they have consistently neglected the study of romantic love. Lystra fills this gap by describing in vivid detail what it meant to fall in love in Victorian America. Based on a vast array of love letters, the book reveals the existence of a real openness--even playfulness--between male and female lovers which challenges and expands more traditional views of middle-class private life in Victorian America. Lystra refutes the common belief that Victorianmen and women held passionlessness as an ideal in their romantic relationships. Enabling us to enter the hidden world of Victorian lovers, the letters they left behind offer genuine proof of the intensity of their most private interactions, feelings, behaviors, and judgments. Lystra discusses howVictorians anthropomorphized love letters, treating them as actual visits from their lovers, insisting on reading them in seclusion, sometimes kissing them (as Albert does with Violet's), and even taking them to bed. She also explores how courtship rituals--which included the setting and passing oftests of love--succeeded in building unique, emotional bonds between lovers, and how middle-class views of romantic love, which encouraged sharing knowledge and intimacy, gave women more power in the home. Through the medium of love letters, Searching the Heart allows us to enter, unnoticed, the Victorian bedroom and parlor. We will leave with a different view of middle-class Victorian America.
Karen Lystra is Professor of American Studies at California State University, Fullerton.
Title:Searching the Heart: Women, Men, and Romantic Love in Nineteenth-Century AmericaFormat:PaperbackDimensions:352 pages, 6.14 × 9.25 × 1.02 inPublished:April 1, 1993Publisher:Oxford University Press

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ISBN - 13:9780195074765

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"Elegant...graceful....A fascinating study of romantic love in America...[Lystra] has truly given us a new view of middle-class America. This is a work that not only takes the nineteenth century seriously, but manages to convey to its readers what it meant to be alive and in love in thatcentury."--Carl Degler, Stanford University