Sexual Fluidity: Understanding Women's Love and Desire by Lisa M. DiamondSexual Fluidity: Understanding Women's Love and Desire by Lisa M. Diamond

Sexual Fluidity: Understanding Women's Love and Desire

byLisa M. Diamond

Paperback | April 15, 2009

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Is love “blind” when it comes to gender? For women, it just might be. This unsettling and original book offers a radical new understanding of the context-dependent nature of female sexuality. Lisa M. Diamond argues that for some women, love and desire are not rigidly heterosexual or homosexual but fluid, changing as women move through the stages of life, various social groups, and, most important, different love relationships.

This perspective clashes with traditional views of sexual orientation as a stable and fixed trait. But that view is based on research conducted almost entirely on men. Diamond is the first to study a large group of women over time. She has tracked one hundred women for more than ten years as they have emerged from adolescence into adulthood. She summarizes their experiences and reviews research ranging from the psychology of love to the biology of sex differences. Sexual Fluidity offers moving first-person accounts of women falling in and out of love with men or women at different times in their lives. For some, gender becomes irrelevant: “I fall in love with the person, not the gender,” say some respondents.

Sexual Fluidity offers a new understanding of women’s sexuality—and of the central importance of love.

Lisa M. Diamond is Associate Professor of Psychology and Gender Studies at the University of Utah.
Title:Sexual Fluidity: Understanding Women's Love and DesireFormat:PaperbackDimensions:352 pages, 8.25 × 5.5 × 0 inPublished:April 15, 2009Publisher:HarvardLanguage:English

The following ISBNs are associated with this title:

ISBN - 10:0674032268

ISBN - 13:9780674032262


Table of Contents

  • 1. Will the Real Lesbians Please Stand Up?
  • 2. Gender Differences in Same-Sex Sexuality
  • 3. Sexual Fluidity in Action
  • 4. Nonexclusive Attractions and Behaviors
  • 5. Change in Sexual Attractions
  • 6. Attractions to “the Person, Not the Gender”
  • 7. How Does Fluidity Work?
  • 8. Implications of Female Sexual Fluidity
  • References
  • Notes
  • Acknowledgments
  • Index

Editorial Reviews

Diamond's study has the potential to lead to more acceptance of variety within sexual orientation. With young women leading the way, everyone will become less fearful of diverse sexual experiences. Sexual Fluidity can take us beyond the divisive language of 'phases' and 'denial' as we speak the truth of our lives to each other.