She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian KernerShe Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner

She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

byIan Kerner

Paperback | January 5, 2010

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“Every man’s must-read. Tell your guy to put down the remote and pick up She Comes First.”


Ian Kerner offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women in She Comes First—an essential guidebook to oral sex from the author of Be Honest—You’re Not That Into Him Either. The New York Times praises Kerner’s “cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform,” as he “encourages men through an act that many find mystifying.” An indispensable aid to a healthier, more fulfilling sex life for her and him, She Comes First offers techniques and philosophy that have already earned raves from the likes of bestselling author and Loveline co-host Dr. Drew Pinsky as well as Playgirl magazine, which cheers, “Hallelujah!”

Ian Kerner, Ph.D., is a sex therapist andNew York Timesbestselling author of numerous books. He contributes regularly toTodayand lives in New York City with his wife and two young sons.
Title:She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a WomanFormat:PaperbackDimensions:240 pages, 8.25 × 5.5 × 0.6 inPublished:January 5, 2010Publisher:HarperCollinsLanguage:English

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ISBN - 10:0060538260

ISBN - 13:9780060538262

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Rated 5 out of 5 by from Yes Should be on every persons list who ever wants to truly pleasure their female partners.
Date published: 2017-03-18
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Informative and useful. Very well written book. Gets the point across in a humorous way, I didn't want to put the book down.
Date published: 2016-11-19
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Excellent addition to your arsenal! The writer of the book writes each chapter so well that, you don't want to be it down. It's a educational book - a book I recommend everyone, especially for the selfish lovers out there! This book will teach you many techniques that will keep her satisfied, and at times, you also get some history facts you probably did not know. HIGHLY RECOMMEND - just need somebody to use my new skills on hehe.
Date published: 2016-11-10
Rated 5 out of 5 by from THE Manual for Men and Women As a woman, I found this book so insightful in helping me understand what my body needed and was built to feel. Dr. Kerner is firm but not rude in his teaching, and says things I still struggle to communicate at times. Definitely a great book for any man or woman to read about this beautiful act.
Date published: 2016-11-07
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Very informative, applicable and 100% useful! ;) This book is amazing! I am only 20 years of age so the book helped debunk a ton of incorrect myths about sex in general, sexual intercourse, and going down on a women. I have become a much better lover and it has paid off great for both me and the woman I pleasure. She is much more excited for sex as she is confident in my abilities to bring her to orgasm each and every time now. Thus, we have sex more often and it is better than ever before. It is also very comforting and satisfying knowing that I can provide her with the same level of pleasure she provides me (possibly more due to the fact that women have the ability to experience multiple orgasms in a short period of time). Jealous. . . : p
Date published: 2013-02-27

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“An entire book written strictly for the pleasure of women by a man. Hallelujah!”