Sticks and Stones: The Philosophy of Insults

Paperback | November 28, 2009

byJerome Neu

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"Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me." This schoolyard rhyme projects an invulnerability to verbal insults that sounds good but rings false. Indeed, the need for such a verse belies its own claims. For most of us, feeling insulted is a distressing-anddistressingly common-experience. In Sticks and Stones, philosopher Jerome Neu probes the nature, purpose, and effects of insults, exploring how and why they humiliate, embarrass, infuriate, and wound us so deeply. What kind of injury is an insult? Is it determined by the insulter or the insulted? What does it reveal about thecharacter of both parties as well as the character of society and its conventions? What role does insult play in social and legal life? When is telling the truth an insult? Neu draws upon a wealth of examples and anecdotes - as well as a range of views from Aristotle and Oliver Wendell Holmes toOscar Wilde, John Wayne, Katherine Hepburn, and many others - to provide surprising answers to these questions. He shows that what we find insulting can reveal much about our ideas of character, honor, gender, the nature of speech acts, and social and legal conventions. He considers how insults,both intentional and unintentional, make themselves felt - in play, Freudian slips, insult humor, rituals, blasphemy, libel, slander, and hate speech. And he investigates the insult's extraordinary power, why it can so quickly destabilize our sense of self and threaten our moral identity, the verycenter of our self-respect and self-esteem. Entertaining, humorous, and deeply insightful, Sticks and Stones unpacks the fascinating dynamics of a phenomenon more often painfully experienced than clearly understood.

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"Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me." This schoolyard rhyme projects an invulnerability to verbal insults that sounds good but rings false. Indeed, the need for such a verse belies its own claims. For most of us, feeling insulted is a distressing-anddistressingly common-experience. In Sticks and Stones, p...

Jerome Neu is Professor of Humanities at the University of California, Santa Cruz.

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Format:PaperbackDimensions:304 pages, 8.25 × 5.5 × 0.68 inPublished:November 28, 2009Publisher:Oxford University PressLanguage:English

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Table of Contents

1. On Feeling Insulted2. Honor: Slaps and Swords3. Insult in Play and Ritual4. Assault from the Rear5. The Language of Abuse6. Insult in the Law: Fighting Words, Obscenity, and Hate Speech7. Insult in the Law: Libel and Slander8. Insult in the Law: Blasphemy9. Insult Humor10. To Understand All Is to Forgive All-Or Is It?

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"Mr. Neu leads his readers into many a satisfying alleyway of mortifying wit." --Wall Street Journal