The Buddha and the Borderline: My Recovery From Borderline Personality Disorder through Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Buddhism, an by Kiera Van GelderThe Buddha and the Borderline: My Recovery From Borderline Personality Disorder through Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Buddhism, an by Kiera Van Gelder

The Buddha and the Borderline: My Recovery From Borderline Personality Disorder through Dialectical…

byKiera Van Gelder

Paperback | July 15, 2010

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Kiera Van Gelder's first suicide attempt at the age of twelve marked the onset of her struggles with drug addiction, depression, post-traumatic stress, self-harm, and chaotic romantic relationships-all of which eventually led to doctors' belated diagnosis of borderline personality disorder twenty years later.
The Buddha and the Borderline is a window into this mysterious and debilitating condition, an unblinking portrayal of one woman's fight against the emotional devastation of borderline personality disorder. This haunting, intimate memoir chronicles both the devastating period that led to Kiera's eventual diagnosis and her inspirational recovery through therapy, Buddhist spirituality, and a few online dates gone wrong. Kiera's story sheds light on the private struggle to transform suffering into compassion for herself and others, and is essential reading for all seeking to understand what it truly means to recover and reclaim the desire to live.
Kiera Van Gelder, MFA , is an artist, educator, and writer diagnosed with BPD. An international speaker and advocate, she is featured in the documentary Back from the Edge: Living with and Recovering from Borderline Personality Disorder.
Title:The Buddha and the Borderline: My Recovery From Borderline Personality Disorder through Dialectical…Format:PaperbackDimensions:264 pages, 9 × 6 × 0.71 inPublished:July 15, 2010Publisher:New Harbinger PublicationsLanguage:English

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ISBN - 10:157224710X

ISBN - 13:9781572247109


Rated 5 out of 5 by from Excellent read! This book is very informative and really great for people who may have someone in their life who struggles with BPD. An inside look at the disorder and many of the problems that come out of it as well as ways to help for those who struggle and those who may know someone who does.
Date published: 2018-06-29
Rated 5 out of 5 by from !! This book helped me in so many ways. I was finally able to relate to someone. Gives me hope that one day I too will have control over my BPD.
Date published: 2013-07-11
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Great look into the Life of a Person with BPD. Kiera Gelder paints a painfully beautiful and realistic picture of the life of someone who suffers from Borderline Personality Disorder. A must read for anyone with Borderline Personality Disorder, thier families and medical profesionals. The book is easy to read and easy to follow, and an honest look at someone who is desperate to get themselves better and is willing to try anything and everything.
Date published: 2010-10-08

Editorial Reviews

The Buddha and the Borderline is a cross between Girl, Interrupted and Bridget Jones's Diary.While reading it, I found myself admiring Kiera's talent for vividly describing borderline hopelessness and pain while keeping me laughing with her tales of life as a 'lonely and increasingly horny receptionist.' While this book has something for everyone, Kiera's detailed account of how she recovered from this deadly disorder will be enormously inspiring to people with borderline personality disorder and their family members." -Randi Kreger, author ofStop Walking on Eggshells andThe Stop Walking on Eggshells Workbook "With wit, clarity, and candor bout her sex life, Kiera chronicles her coping with the pain and emptiness of borderline personality disorder while proving that the road to recovery is usually under construction." -Jim Payne, board member of the National Alliance on Mental Illness "Kiera creates a window into the soul of one coming to grips with severe mental illness. Fully exposed, she shows us the pain, pleasure, and finally, the redemption of the borderlineexperience. Her gripping story sheds new light upon one of the most misunderstood and stigmatized of all human conditions, and for that, I am deeply grateful. Her words will quite possibly be shocking to some, but will validate and comfort those with the disorder and those who are tryingto understand them. Welcometo our world: the pain, shame, and pleasure, and then, finally, the insight and skill-building that leads to healing, love, and happiness. Kiera captures the experience brilliantly." -Tami Green, internationally recognized speaker, life coach and advocate for those in recovery from mental illness " The Buddha and the Borderline is a strikingly candid and comprehensive account of the author's personal experiences of the effects of borderline personality disorder spanning more than two decades. Van Gelder is a very well informed, engaging, and talented writer. She reveals the multiple and complex symptoms of borderline disorder as manifested in her life with great honesty,revealing the devastating pain with moving and insightful vignettes that are tempered on occasion with a finely tuned sense of humor. This is a must-read for people with this disorder, their families and loved ones, and mental health professionals." -Robert O. Friede, MD, author of Borderline Personality Disorder Demystified " The Buddha and the Borderline is a masterpiece. Kiera shares her road to recovery in a captivating way that brings a unique understanding to a confusing, challenging, and controversial disorder. Having the privilege to personally know Kiera, I applaud her on so many levels, least of all this must-read book. She is an inspiration to all who strive and hope for recovery from borderline personality disorder." -Perry D. Hoffman Ph.D., president of the National Education Alliance for Borderline Personality Disorder (NEA-BPD) "Kiera's book is destind to become a classic in the growing literature on borderline personality disorder. I expected to get a somber account of a transformation from suffering to enlightenment,but the book I read was not only entirely entertaining and revealing, but also had me up way past my bedtime in stitches. The Buddha and the Borderline is seriously funny, authentic, and sublime in its wisdom. The book embodies the Four Noble Truths of Buddhism and integrates the world of core unrelenting suffering with the world of freedom from suffering. Transcendent stuff." -Blaise Aguirre,MD, medical director of the Adolescent Dialectical Behavior Therapy Residential Program at McLean Hospital in Belmont, MA " The Buddha and the Borderline is a gripping, authentic, and ultimately inspiring portrayal of one woman's triumph over borderline personality disorder. An intriguing, riveting, and compelling read, the depth and complexity of both character and story are to be savored. Kiera Van Gelder has shared the private depths of her heart and soul and, in doing so, has bestowed upon the reader a great and sacred gift." -Roy Krawitz, author of Borderline Personality Disorder: The Facts "A very educational and insightful look into the inner world of borderline personality disorder and its treatment. Kiera Van Gelder's witty tone and engaging journey brilliantly chronicles the dialectic of profound suffering and how that suffering can be transformed into a life worth living." -A.J. Mahari, author of Life Coach and Mental Health Coach "Out of a profoundly painful experience, Kiera Van Gelder has written a brave and hopeful book exploring her recovery from borderline personality disorder. Kiera's story will undoubtedly touch countless lives and be a source of inspiration to those who have been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, their families, and the mental health professionals who play a crucial role in the complex nexus of education, treatment, and support. The Buddha and the Borderline is a compelling and invaluable narrative for anyone wanting to learn more about the difficult, yet ultimately rewarding, process of recovery." -Amanda L. Smith, Florida Borderline Personality Disorder Association " The Buddha and the Borderline by Kiera Van Gelder is captivating, literary, and insightful. Van Gelder's use of metaphor enhances the haunting nature of her journey through life. As I read the book, I recognized her pain, and cheered her on. Her insights led me to a better understanding of myself and the nature of borderline personality disorder." -Lisa Dietz, owner of "