The Happiest Baby On The Block; Fully Revised And Updated Second Edition: The New Way To Calm Crying And Help Your Newborn Baby Sleep Longer by Harvey KarpThe Happiest Baby On The Block; Fully Revised And Updated Second Edition: The New Way To Calm Crying And Help Your Newborn Baby Sleep Longer by Harvey Karp

The Happiest Baby On The Block; Fully Revised And Updated Second Edition: The New Way To Calm…

byHarvey Karp

Paperback | October 6, 2015

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Never again will you have to stand by helplessly while your little baby cries and cries. There is a way to calm most crying babies . . . usually in minutes! 
 
Thousands of parents, from regular moms and dads to Hollywood superstars, have come to baby expert Dr. Harvey Karp to learn his remarkable techniques for soothing babies and increasing sleep. Now his landmark book—fully revised and updated with the latest insights into infant sleep, bedsharing, breastfeeding, swaddling, and SIDS risk—can teach you too! Dr. Karp’s highly successful method is based on four revolutionary concepts:
 
1. The Fourth Trimester: Why babies still yearn for a womblike atmosphere . . . even after birth
2. The Calming Reflex: An “off switch” all babies are born with
3. The 5 S’s: Five easy steps to turn on your baby’s amazing calming reflex
4. The Cuddle Cure: How to combine the 5 S’s to calm even colicky babies
 
With Dr. Karp’s sensible advice, parents and grandparents, nurses and nannies, will be able to transform even the fussiest infant into the happiest baby on the block!
 
Praise for The Happiest Baby on the Block
 
“Dr. Karp’s book is fascinating and will guide new parents for years to come.”—Julius Richmond, M.D., Harvard Medical School, former Surgeon General of the United States
 
The Happiest Baby on the Block is fun and convincing. I highly recommend it.”—Elisabeth Bing, co-founder of Lamaze International
 
“Will fascinate anyone who wants to know how babies experience the world, and wants to answer their cries lovingly and effectively.”The San Diego Union-Tribune

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If there is one baby book that every new parent should read before bringing home their bundle of joy, Harvey Karp’s The Happiest Baby on the Block is that book. Clear, concise, exceedingly practical, and highly entertaining, Dr. Karp explains why babies are predisposed to crying in their first three months and how parents can calm th...

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Harvey Karp, M.D., is an assistant professor of pediatrics at the USC School of Medicine. He is the bestselling author of The Happiest Baby on the Block, The Happiest Toddler on the Block, and The Happiest Baby Guide to Great Sleep: Simple Solutions for Kids from Birth to 5 Years. Dr. Karp is also a nationally renowned expert in child ...
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Title:The Happiest Baby On The Block; Fully Revised And Updated Second Edition: The New Way To Calm…Format:PaperbackProduct dimensions:352 pages, 8.2 × 5.5 × 0.76 inShipping dimensions:8.2 × 5.5 × 0.76 inPublished:October 6, 2015Publisher:Random House Publishing GroupLanguage:English

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Rated 5 out of 5 by from The Happiest Baby on the Block simply is a must read for all new parents. If there is one baby book that every new parent should read before bringing home their bundle of joy, Harvey Karp’s The Happiest Baby on the Block is that book. Clear, concise, exceedingly practical, and highly entertaining, Dr. Karp explains why babies are predisposed to crying in their first three months and how parents can calm that crying and help their newborn sleep longer. Dr. Karp explains why it is so crucial to understand what a newborn’s experience in the womb is like and how mimicking that environment makes all the difference in a newborn’s first three months during what he call the missing 4th trimester. Dr. Karp explains why newborns really would benefit from another trimester in the womb but since this is physiologically not possible why the next best thing is to adopt practices that give newborns a similar feeling of safety – the rocking motion, the background constant white noise, that feeling of constant touch and being cuddled in the womb. He details his 5S approach which includes Swaddling, Side/Stomach positioning, Shushing, Swinging, and Sucking. He explains both why each “S” works for newborns and how parents can best use these strategies. Further, Dr. Karp uses scientific studies and anthropological observations to debunk myths that would possibly stop new parents from using some or all of the techniques he outlines. The immediate benefit of reading Karp’s book and employing his strategies is better sleep and less crying for babies (and unquestionably the added bonus of better sleep for parents). Finally, interwoven throughout his book are serious discussions regarding the safety of newborns and how to mitigate the risk of SIDS by employing the 5S system. Thus, the 5S method Dr. Karp suggests parents should adopt to help their newborn become the happiest baby on the block will also help ensure they have the safest baby on the block. The Happiest Baby on the Block simply is a must read for all new parents.
Date published: 2018-10-24
Rated 4 out of 5 by from great book this was a great book for when I had my first baby! so many things I didnt know about!!
Date published: 2018-08-01
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Easy to Read, Can't wait to Try We are expecting our first baby, and both my husband and I devoured this book quickly. It is easy to follow, with some great quick reference pages that we have tabbed for when we get to put the advice into action. We'll see if it actually works, but it's nice feeling like we will have some "tools" for soothing the babe.
Date published: 2018-06-01
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Excellent read for new parents Read this book before the arrival of my baby and found it helpful. Finished it over a weekend as it is an easy read. While I agree each baby is as unique as their parents, this book sheds some understanding on why all babies love to be swaddled, jiggled, held, shush'ed, etc. Reading this book helped prepare me for surviving the newborn period and understand what my baby needed during the transition to life outside the womb. Highly recommend. Bought several copies for my pregnant friends.
Date published: 2018-04-08
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Great resource I read this before our baby arrived. I found it to be a great resource in the early days to help keep baby content. It gave practical solutions to calm a newborn and the reasoning on why different methods work. Great read for first time parents, especially those with limited baby experience!
Date published: 2017-11-05
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Full of good and useful information I was recommended this book by a new mommy and it's amazing! It's full of fact and good tips (5 S's!!!!!) It's not a dense read either. Highly recommended to any expecting parents, especially first timers!
Date published: 2017-09-25
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Life changing! This is the best baby book I read - and I read a lot! It changed the way I think about babies and changed the way that I parent. I can say that it had a positive effect on my relationship with my child. Love this book! I am part way through Happiest Toddler on the block now!
Date published: 2017-03-24
Rated 4 out of 5 by from great read for first time parent some of the tips and advice are great (5S's) but at the end of the day, each baby is unique and not every tip may be useful for your child and it's important to keep that in mind when apply advice from baby books.
Date published: 2017-03-14

Read from the Book

Babies: A New Insight Main Points • All babies cry, but most new parents have little experience soothing them. • The missing fourth trimester: Babies cry because they’re born three months too soon! • The calming reflex: Nature’s brilliant “off switch” for your baby’s crying. • The 5 S’s: Five simple steps to imitate the womb and turn on the calming reflex. • The Cuddle Cure: Comforting your baby with his/her preferred mix of S’s. Suzanne was freaking out. Her two-­month-old, was a nonstop screamer. Sean could cry for hours—­even through the night—­and his mother was desperately exhausted. One afternoon her sister, Angie, visited to help. As soon as Angie picked Sean up, Suzanne bolted to the bathroom for a hot shower. Twenty-­five minutes later, she awoke, curled in a ball on the shower’s blue tile floor being sprayed with ice-­cold water. While this was happening in California, on the plains of Bot­swana, Nisa nursed her baby, Chuko. Chuko was delicate and small, but she rarely cried for more than a few seconds. Nisa carried Chuko everywhere in a leather sling. She never worried when Chuko cried, because—­having cared for so many little cousins—­she knew exactly how to calm her. Why did Suzanne fail at soothing Sean’s screams? And what secrets did Nisa know that settled Chuko so quickly? Your Baby Is Born When perfectly dry, his flesh sweet and pure, he is the most kissable object in nature. Marion Harland, Common Sense in the Nursery, 1886 If you’re pregnant or have a new baby, congratulations! Having a baby is a wonderful—­and wonder-­filled—­experience that makes us laugh, cry, and stare in amazement . . . all at the same time. It’s a miraculous and profound life event that can make gamblers give up gambling, drug addicts stop getting high, and hard-­core bikers buy minivans! After giving birth, your top jobs for the next few months will be feeding your baby well and calming her cries. After thirty years as a pediatrician, I can tell you that parents who succeed at these tasks feel proud and confident. However, parents who struggle with them feel distraught and incompetent. Fortunately, baby feeding is usually pretty easy. Most newborns happily gulp down the milk as if you were a five-­star restaurant. And if you run into difficulties, there are many places to turn for help. Soothing crying, on the other hand, can be unexpectedly hard. No couple expects their sweet newborn to be “difficult.” (Your friends may share horror stories about screaming babies, but most of us think, That won’t be my child!) So we’re usually shocked when our little one’s wails go on and on no matter what we do. Now, I’m not saying crying is bad. In fact, it’s brilliant! Leave it to nature to equip helpless babies with a way to make even the most exhausted mom vault out of a warm bed—­on a cold night—­and hustle over to meet her little one’s needs. Once your fusser has your attention, you’ll want to zip through a short checklist: • If she’s hungry . . . feed her. • If she’s wet . . . change her diaper. • If she’s cold . . . bundle her up. • If she’s hot . . . unwrap her. • If she’s lonely . . . pick her up. The trouble comes when none of these steps works. Fifty percent of babies have bouts of inconsolable fussiness lasting two hours a day—­or more. And 10–15 percent—­about half a million new babies born each year—­suffer three-­plus hours of red-­faced, eye-clenched screaming a day. This is why new parents are such heroes! A baby’s scream is heart-­wrenching. And hours of inconsolable crying can trigger a panic of self-­doubt: “Is my baby in pain?” “Does she hate me?” “Am I spoiling her?” “Does she feel abandoned?” “Am I a terrible mother?” Distraught parents are often counseled that there’s no cure for fussy, sleepless babies. They are told they must wait a few months for their baby to “grow out of it.” Yet, it feels like torture to sit by while your baby cries and cries. Confronted by this barrage, even the most loving parents may get pushed into waves of anxiety, depression, or the tragedies of suicide or child abuse. Note: I’ve been told that Navy SEALS are trained to endure severe sleep deprivation and hours of infant crying blasted over loud speakers. In other words, the military prepares warriors to handle torture by exposing them to . . . a typical day in the life of a new mom or dad! Help Wanted: Where Do Parents Turn When Their Baby Cries a Lot? Today’s moms and dads are among the most educated parents who ever lived. But when it comes to babies, they have less experience than any generation in history! Shockingly, we’re required to have more preparation and training to get a driver’s license than to have a baby. Of course, regardless of your training you should still expect to be the target of an onslaught of advice. Family, friends—­even total strangers—­shower us with their counsel. “It’s boredom.” “It’s the heat.” “Put a hat on him.” “It’s gas.” I think America’s favorite pastime isn’t baseball. . . . It’s giving new moms unsolicited advice. And, advice is something parents of fussy babies definitely need. One in six couples takes their baby to the doctor because of persistent crying. Yet, while thousands of clinics have been created to solve feeding problems, very few are set up to help with screaming babies. In fact, most doctors have little to offer families of colicky babies, other than sympathy. “I know it’s hard, but be patient; it won’t last forever.” Or, even worse, “Just put your baby in a dark room and let her cry. She just needs to blow off steam.” (Hey, babies aren’t pressure cookers.) Top baby experts usually confess that they have few tools to help really fussy babies: Very often, you may not even be able to quiet the screaming. Heidi Eisenberg Murkoff, Arlene Eisenberg, Sandee E. Hathaway, and Sharon Mazel, What to Expect the First Year The whole episode goes on at least an hour and perhaps for three or four hours. Penelope Leach, Your Baby and Child Crying up to five hours a day is not unusual. When you begin to become very frustrated with a baby’s crying, it is time to set the infant in a safe place and walk away. Period of PURPLE Crying program Well, it turns out that these ideas are all obsolete. Screaming does not have to go on for hours. And what’s even more concerning, when left unchecked, nonstop crying can trigger serious problems, like postpartum depression, crib death (from unsafe sleeping practices), and failed breast-feeding. Of course, if your patience is frayed and you fear you might hurt your child, you must put her down . . . take a break . . . and call a friend for help. But if a mom in the wilds of Africa can calm her baby in under a minute, you can bet that there’s probably a way to help unhappy babies in our culture, too. The Four Principles of BABY Soothing Botswanan moms carry their infants in leather sacks twenty-­four hours a day (cuddling and bouncing as they walk). They also calm their infants by nursing them fifty to a hundred times a day . . . including all through the night! You may not be ready to adopt the Botswana lifestyle, but the key lesson of their success is that colic is not inevitable. Persistent crying is an unintended side effect of our culture. However, the good news is that, with the right techniques, we, too, can calm most screaming bouts in under one minute. By teasing out shreds of wisdom from past cultures and weaving them with modern research, I’ve found that the key to calming crying and boosting sleep can be explained through four simple ideas: • The missing fourth trimester • The calming reflex • The 5 S’s • The Cuddle Cure

Editorial Reviews

Praise for The Happiest Baby on the Block   “Dr. Karp’s book is fascinating and will guide new parents for years to come.”—Julius Richmond, M.D., Harvard Medical School, former Surgeon General of the United States   “The Happiest Baby on the Block is fun and convincing. I highly recommend it.”—Elisabeth Bing, co-founder of Lamaze International   “Will fascinate anyone who wants to know how babies experience the world, and wants to answer their cries lovingly and effectively.”—The San Diego Union-Tribune