The Priority of the Other: Thinking and Living Beyond the Self by Mark FreemanThe Priority of the Other: Thinking and Living Beyond the Self by Mark Freeman

The Priority of the Other: Thinking and Living Beyond the Self

byMark Freeman

Hardcover | January 1, 2014

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Psychology, having come of age under the influence of Descartes and other champions of the thinking "I," has come to focus largely on what happens inside the self. This perspective expanded with the emergence of social psychology and, more recently, cultural psychology, but by and large, thefield has taken an essentially ego-centric approach. Working from this basic premise, Mark Freeman proposes that we adopt a more "ex-centric" perspective, one that affirms the priority of the Other in shaping human experience. In speaking of the "Other," Freeman refers not only to other people, butalso to those non-human "others," nature, art, God, that take us beyond the ego and bring us closer to the world. In speaking of the Other's priority, he insists that there is much in life that "comes before us." By thinking and living the priority of the Other, we can therefore become betterattuned to both the world beyond us and the world within. At the heart of Freeman's perspective are two fundamental ideas. The first is that the Other is the primary source of meaning, inspiration, and existential nourishment. The second is that it is the primary source of our ethical energies, and that being responsive and responsible to the world beyondus is a defining feature of our humanity. There is a tragic side to Freeman's story, however. Enraptured though we may be by the Other, we frequently encounter it in a state of distraction and fail to receive the nourishment and inspiration it can provide. And responsive and responsible though wemay sometimes be, it is perilously easy to retreat inward, to the needy ego. The challenge, therefore, is to break the spell of the "ordinary oblivion" that characterizes much of everyday life. The Priority of the Other can help us rise to the occasion.
Mark Freeman is Professor of Psychology, Distinguished Professor of Ethics and Society at the College of the Holy Cross.
Title:The Priority of the Other: Thinking and Living Beyond the SelfFormat:HardcoverDimensions:256 pages, 9.25 × 6.12 × 0.98 inPublished:January 1, 2014Publisher:Oxford University PressLanguage:English

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ISBN - 10:0199759308

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Table of Contents

Introduction: Thinking and Being Otherwise1. From Self to Other2. Oblivion and Attention3. For the Other4. Beyond the Human5. The Possibility of Transcendence6. Living Ex-CentricallyReferences