The Tender Bar: A Memoir by J. R. MoehringerThe Tender Bar: A Memoir by J. R. Moehringer

The Tender Bar: A Memoir

byJ. R. Moehringer

Paperback | August 1, 2006

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TheNew York Timesbestseller and one of the 100 Most Notable Books of 2005. In the tradition ofThis Boy's LifeandThe Liar's Club, a raucous, poignant, luminously written memoir about a boy striving to become a man, and his romance with a bar.
J.R. Moehringer grew up captivated by a voice. It was the voice of his father, a New York City disc jockey who vanished before J.R. spoke his first word. Sitting on the stoop, pressing an ear to the radio, J.R. would strain to hear in that plummy baritone the secrets of masculinity and identity. Though J.R.'s mother was his world, his rock, he craved something more, something faintly and hauntingly audible only in The Voice.

At eight years old, suddenly unable to find The Voice on the radio, J.R. turned in desperation to the bar on the corner, where he found a rousing chorus of new voices. The alphas along the bar--including J.R.'s Uncle Charlie, a Humphrey Bogart look-alike; Colt, a Yogi Bear sound-alike; and Joey D, a softhearted brawler--took J.R. to the beach, to ballgames, and ultimately into their circle. They taught J.R., tended him, and provided a kind of fathering-by-committee. Torn between the stirring example of his mother and the lurid romance of the bar, J.R. tried to forge a self somewhere in the center. But when it was time for J.R. to leave home, the bar became an increasingly seductive sanctuary, a place to return and regroup during his picaresque journeys. Time and again the bar offered shelter from failure, rejection, heartbreak--and eventually from reality.

In the grand tradition of landmark memoirs,The Tender Baris suspenseful, wrenching, and achingly funny. A classic American story of self-invention and escape, of the fierce love between a single mother and an only son, it's also a moving portrait of one boy's struggle to become a man, and an unforgettable depiction of how men remain, at heart, lost boys.
J.R. Moehringer, winner of the Pulitzer Prize for feature writing in 2000, is a staff writer for theLos Angeles Times Sunday Magazine, and a former Nieman Fellow at Harvard University. He lives in Denver.
Title:The Tender Bar: A MemoirFormat:PaperbackProduct dimensions:432 pages, 8 × 5.25 × 1 inShipping dimensions:8 × 5.25 × 1 inPublished:August 1, 2006Publisher:Hachette BooksLanguage:English

The following ISBNs are associated with this title:

ISBN - 10:0786888768

ISBN - 13:9780786888764

Appropriate for ages: 13


Rated 4 out of 5 by from The Tender Bar Boy could I relate to many parts in this book. Very good read
Date published: 2014-02-09