The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy: How to Have Incredible Sex with Role Play, Sex Games, Erotic Massage, BDSM and More by Violet BlueThe Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy: How to Have Incredible Sex with Role Play, Sex Games, Erotic Massage, BDSM and More by Violet Blue

The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy: How to Have Incredible Sex with Role Play, Sex Games, Erotic…

byViolet BlueForeword byCarol Queen

Paperback | June 17, 2014

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Join the legions of couples and singles who are making their hottest sexual fantasies come true. Whether you're looking for an endless supply of fantasy ideas or expert advice for a playful, imaginative sex life that turns you both on, this information-packed book has everything you need to know. The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy helps readers learn their lover's secret fantasies; engage in hot, dramatic role-play without feeling silly; have a threesome-without jealousy; explore sex parties and swinging; have sex in public; create thrilling S&M scenarios; make their own porn and erotic photos; and strip, give lap dances, and talk dirty. Also included are comprehensive lists of the most popular fantasies and fetishes complete with suggestions for props, toys, and costumes (and where to buy them), racy sex games for lovers, expert help for deciding just how far to take your fantasies, and hot new stories by best-selling erotica author Alison Tyler.

  • Learn your lover's secret fantasies
  • Role-play: hot, dramatic sex without feeling silly
  • Comprehensive lists of the most popular fantasies and fetishes-complete with suggestions for props, toys, and costumes (and where to buy them)
  • Expert help for deciding just how far to take your fantasies

Violet Blue is a best-selling author of sex manuals and editor of erotica. She writes for and has been interviewed by O: The Oprah Magazine, The History Channel, and Penthouse, and in 2013 was named one of the Best Sex Educators in San Francisco by SF Weekly. She lives in San Francisco.
Title:The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy: How to Have Incredible Sex with Role Play, Sex Games, Erotic…Format:PaperbackDimensions:288 pages, 8.86 × 6.38 × 0.79 inPublished:June 17, 2014Publisher:Cleis PressLanguage:English

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ISBN - 10:1627780416

ISBN - 13:9781627780414

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Violet Blue'sThe Ultimate Guide To Sexual Fantasy is an encyclopedia of sexual fantasies-both common and obscure. Use it to prime your erotic imagination or to discover fantasies you never knew you had!"-Pleasure Mechanics"FINALLY we are given permission and allowed to explore our sexual selves through fantasy in a way that makes us comfortable enough to include our partners and open up the lines of communication. And that is why I love this book."-Rose Caraway, editor ofThe Sexy Librarian's Big Book of Erotica"The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy is your ticket to a host of new and rejuvenated sexual rides. From spiritless spouses, to salacious singles, Violet Blue's book has a fantasy for everyone. Why not treat yourself, and others?"-Three Letter Blog"Violet Blue speaks "how-to" like no one else in the business. She has a way of engaging readers from the very first sentence. Her calm words soothe any worries you may have. She writes without judgment, with compassion, with wit. You find yourself breathlessly devouring every passage."-Alison Tyler, author ofNever Say Never andNever Have the Same Sex Twice"I recommend this book to anyone looking to bring up some fantasies with their partner, anyone trying to wrap their head around fantasies their partner has already brought up, anyone looking to spice things up a bit (or a lot). Even if your sex life is completely satisfying, this is a fantastic book. You never know what else you might throw in your already-gratifying sex life. Pick this book up. Trust me."-Live and Let Love"After readingThe Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy, I'm confident that you'll feel like the world is your sexual oyster, ripe and ready for you to devour it! I recommend it to anyone who wants to strengthen their sex life-Violet Blue makes learning about all of the possibilities for fantasy fueled sex accessible and exciting."-Penny's Dirty Thoughts"Violet is a charming and very well-informed force to be reckoned with when it comes to all things sex."-Lovehoney"The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy is the most expansive guide I've ever read. More than a book with tips and ideas to explore in the bedroom, this book is a road map to all sorts of sexual pleasures. Violet Blue draws from her vast knowledge of all things erotic and kinky to bring together this all inclusive guide."-Kink Etc."When you pick up and loveThe Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy, you're going to get great suggestions and advice, sexy stories and amazing resources!"-Sex in Words"It is fantastic to see a diverse spectrum of options depicted as sexy possibilities, suitable for anyone with the inclination to pursue them. Violet Blue makes everything from phone sex to visiting a pro domme to a wet and messy fetish feel approachable."-Naked All the Time"Whether you'd call your sex life vanilla or if you already have some kinky tricks up your sleeve, Violet Blue has tips and advice on how to make your fantastical sex the absolute best that it can be."-Bitches n Prose"As an educator, I wish more books like this were available. It gives readers the chance to really feel empowered to take hold of their sexuality and explore all of it's possibilities without judgement or fear-and to be able to do so gracefully, consciously, and safely."-Secret Pleasures"The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy lays it all out on the table, from getting started to helping you figure out how to communicate your fantasies to a partner to carrying out elaborate fantastic scenes."-Peep's Scoop"The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy by Violet Blue is one of the best books out there for those who are looking to learn and explore more about sexual fantasies."-Nymphomaniac Ness"The ultimate guide to getting your sexy on."-The Vodka Press"If you're curious about exploring more of your fantasies, or if you've been wondering how to experience a particularly hot fantasy you've been longing to try, you might want to take a look at Violet Blue'sThe Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy."-The Ladygarden Project"I was blown away by all the ideas in this book."-Hedo Vibes"In this new volume we learn how to make sexual fantasies come true-ideas for an imaginative sex life."-Reviews by Amos Lassen "