There When He Needs You: How to Be an Available, Involved, and Emotionally Connected Father to Your Son by Neil I. BernsteinThere When He Needs You: How to Be an Available, Involved, and Emotionally Connected Father to Your Son by Neil I. Bernstein

There When He Needs You: How to Be an Available, Involved, and Emotionally Connected Father to Your…

byNeil I. BernsteinAs told byBrooke Lea Foster

Paperback | June 11, 2011

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Men want to be better fathers, and today they're trying harder than ever. They jog behind strollers, leave work early for parent-teacher conferences, and roughhouse with their kids before they've had a chance to change out of their suits.

But many men aren't building the relationships with their sons that they'd hoped for. And sons are finding it hard to confide in fathers who must devote so much of their time to building careers that both keep them from their families and keep their families comfortable. Many fathers admit that they don't have a clue what's going on in their sons' lives, from ball game schedules to online communities to fears and anxieties about school, friends, and relationships. Fathers often walk around burdened with guilt, worried they're just not able to do the right thing, even though they're trying to be equal partners in parenting with their wives.

There When He Needs You is the first book to tell the truth about the challenges that fathers of sons face today -- including the intergenerational legacies of self-doubt that they anxiously carry from themselves having had distant, unavailable fathers. A self-treatment program as well as a psychological X-ray of today's father, There When He Needs You shows you how to create and strengthen a real, meaningful bond with your son. Through real-life stories of real-life dads who have lost and found their way, you as a father will learn to reorder your priorities, express yourself more openly, connect with your loved ones, and become the role model that your son needs.

Wives will learn how to gently help their husbands do this -- no nagging, threatening, or criticizing -- while becoming their husband's best friend, cheerleader, and coach. Turning the father-son dynamic inside out, There When He Needs You helps fathers, sons, and mothers to understand their roles in the family and create relationships that fuel closeness and trust.

There When He Needs You will open your eyes, tickle your funny bone, and touch your heart. Ultimately, you'll understand what it really means to be a father to your son and discover new ways to be there for him.

Dr. Neil I. Bernstein is a clinical psychologist specializing in teen behavior. He speaks frequently around the country to groups ranging from guidance counselors and probation officers to parents. He lives in the Washington, D.C., area.
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Title:There When He Needs You: How to Be an Available, Involved, and Emotionally Connected Father to Your…Format:PaperbackDimensions:256 pages, 9 × 6 × 0.6 inPublished:June 11, 2011Publisher:Atria BooksLanguage:English

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"Refreshingly unpreachy. . . Bernstein's overall message is enlivening. Using real-life examples to the best possible effect, he quickly and effectively shows readers how other fathers have broken negative cycles and corrected mistakes that have, in some cases, persisted throughout generations." --Douglas C. Lord, Library Journal, April 1, 2008