Writing with Grace: A Journey beyond Down Syndrome by Judy McFarlaneWriting with Grace: A Journey beyond Down Syndrome by Judy McFarlane

Writing with Grace: A Journey beyond Down Syndrome

byJudy McFarlane

Paperback | March 14, 2014

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"I don’t know how to describe me as a real person." -- From "My Real Truth," a poem by Grace Chen

"Put her away and forget about her." This was the blunt advice Grace Chen's grandfather gave Grace's parents when she was born with Down Syndrome.

Twenty-four years later, Grace writes, "I always dream to be a famous writer." When Judy McFarlane is asked if she will help Grace, she realizes she holds deep, unacknowledged fears -- that Grace will be a dull-eyed young woman who can't read, let alone write, that she might become agitated, even lash out. But the idea that Grace wants to be a writer, a dream McFarlane gave up when she was young, captures McFarlane. She helps Grace write her book and travels with Grace when she gives a copy of it to her grandfather.

Writing with Grace is the inspiring and informative story of the journey Grace and Judy have taken together. It relates the often dark history of Down Syndrome, something the Canadian Down Syndrome Society maintains is "not a birth defect or illness" but "a naturally occurring chromosomal arrangement that has always been part of the human condition." It also tells a universal story of moving from a deep fear of the 'other,' to seeing the world through the eyes of the 'other,' to Judy truly understanding when Grace says, "my real truth is too scary. I like to hide my real truth."

With honest introspection and keen insight, McFarlane delves into what it takes to face one's own prejudice, what it means to live a full life and believe you are worthy. From a young woman who is marginalized by society, McFarlane learns how much courage it takes to follow a dream when everyone tells you it’s impossible.

Judy McFarlane is a Vancouver writer, graduate of UBC's MFA Creative Writing program and former lawyer. Her fiction and non-fiction stories, one of which was nominated for the Journey Prize, have been published in Canadian literary journals and newspapers and broadcast on CBC radio. Writing with Grace is her first book.
Title:Writing with Grace: A Journey beyond Down SyndromeFormat:PaperbackDimensions:256 pages, 8 × 6 × 1 inPublished:March 14, 2014Publisher:Douglas And McIntyre (2013) Ltd.Language:English

The following ISBNs are associated with this title:

ISBN - 10:1771620250

ISBN - 13:9781771620253


Rated 5 out of 5 by from brilliant writing! engaging from the first page, judy mcfarlane shows what it means to have dreams and ambition and down syndrome, and what it means to be a writer afraid of her own dreams and ambition and 'the other.' beautifully written, with fascinating insights into how the medical community and society has and now views intellectual disability, mcfarlane's accomplished and courageous story is impossible to put down.
Date published: 2015-12-29
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Important Read I learned so much from this book and I recommend it to all parents, heartily.
Date published: 2014-08-18