Why Not Me? by Mindy KalingWhy Not Me? by Mindy Kaling

Why Not Me?

byMindy Kaling

Hardcover | September 15, 2015

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From the author of the beloved New York Times bestselling book Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? and the creator and star of The Mindy Project comes a collection of essays that are as hilarious and insightful as they are deeply personal.
In Why Not Me?, Kaling shares her ongoing journey to find contentment and excitement in her adult life, whether it’s falling in love at work, seeking new friendships in lonely places, attempting to be the first person in history to lose weight without any behavior modification whatsoever, or most important, believing that you have a place in Hollywood when you’re constantly reminded that no one looks like you.
In “How to Look Spectacular: A Starlet’s Confessions,” Kaling gives her tongue-in-cheek secrets for surefire on-camera beauty, (“Your natural hair color may be appropriate for your skin tone, but this isn’t the land of appropriate–this is Hollywood, baby. Out here, a dark-skinned woman’s traditional hair color is honey blonde.”) “Player” tells the story of Kaling being seduced and dumped by a female friend in L.A. (“I had been replaced by a younger model. And now they had matching bangs.”) In “Unlikely Leading Lady,” she muses on America’s fixation with the weight of actresses, (“Most women we see onscreen are either so thin that they’re walking clavicles or so huge that their only scenes involve them breaking furniture.”) And in “Soup Snakes,” Kaling spills some secrets on her relationship with her ex-boyfriend and close friend, B.J. Novak (“I will freely admit: my relationship with B.J. Novak is weird as hell.”)
Mindy turns the anxieties, the glamour, and the celebrations of her second coming-of-age into a laugh-out-loud funny collection of essays that anyone who’s ever been at a turning point in their life or career can relate to. And those who’ve never been at a turning point can skip to the parts where she talks about meeting Bradley Cooper.
MINDY KALING lives in rural New Hampshire and does not own a TV.
Title:Why Not Me?Format:HardcoverDimensions:240 pages, 8.54 × 5.78 × 0.8 inPublished:September 15, 2015Publisher:Crown/ArchetypeLanguage:English

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Rated 5 out of 5 by from I adored this book! I absolutely loved this book! It’s true that you have to understand Mindy’s humor to truly appreciate this book, but if you do OMG you’ll be doing some serious LOLing. It’s sooo funny! If you’re still thinking about it by this point, STOP AND BUY IT!!!
Date published: 2019-01-12
Rated 3 out of 5 by from Meh There are a few awesome quotes that I've saved but overall, it wasn't very funny and seemed very repetitive
Date published: 2018-08-28
Rated 5 out of 5 by from So funny Mindy is hilarious. Having read her first autobiography - and loving it - I couldn't wait to read this one too! Her writing style is just like her character on the Mindy Project - hilarious and fun. She writes a captivating autobiography that is an easy and enjoyable read.
Date published: 2018-08-28
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Really enjoyed I read this while away in Hawaii and I really enjoyed it. It was easy to read and hard to put down. I found myself not wanting the book to end and when it did I wanted more.
Date published: 2018-08-26
Rated 5 out of 5 by from So funny (and super inspirational) Love when a book not only has a pretty cover but is actually just as good inside!! So funny while being very inspiring and motivating; Mindy Kaling has such a great voice and writes amazingly #plumreview
Date published: 2018-08-25
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Light and funny I found this book easy to read. It was so funny! You need to understand Mindy's humour to properly enjoy this book though!
Date published: 2018-08-24
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Absolutely Hilarious Easy light read, absolutely fantastic! Great book to give as a gift.
Date published: 2018-08-15
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Hilarious and inspirational I absolutely love Mindy Kaling and think that everything she touches is gold, including this book. I loved reading about her stories, her experiences and her life. This was a really entertaining read with a really great message overall.
Date published: 2018-08-11
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Pretty funny book I liked it. It might not be your cup of tea if you don't like Mindy's sense of humour, but I thought it was great!
Date published: 2018-08-08
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Great book! I read this when I was on holiday and it was a great book that you didn't have to really focus on to enjoy. Easy read!
Date published: 2018-08-06
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Great second book! I really enjoyed this book! It was funny and entertaining and hard to put down!
Date published: 2018-07-09
Rated 3 out of 5 by from good but not great The book was ok, picked it up after the first one expecting it to be as funny. Definitely read the first one. This one is good but not as funny as the first one. Seemed a bit rushed like it was a quick book to get to market,
Date published: 2018-06-29
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Surefire way to make you LOL Bought this after I read her first book. I was already laughing and I've only been reading the foreword! This book is certain to lift your spirits up especially if you're already a fan of Mindy Kaling.
Date published: 2018-06-09
Rated 2 out of 5 by from Tries A Little Too Hard I really wanted to enjoy this book. It came highly recommended from a colleague, who promised me it was funny and insightful. But when it came down to it, it just didn't work for me. Perhaps it was just a matter of my personality versus Kaling's, or maybe just my preferences for people's stories and sense of humour, but I found myself frequently bored with this book, and only kept going because it's hard to change audiobooks while I'm driving.  I just found that when Kaling was trying to be funny, it just came off as awkward and weird. It almost seemed like she was trying too hard for a lot of the book. I enjoyed her personality and stories, but it came across as a little forced and fake, at least in the audiobook, which ruined it for me. Some of her stories were just a bit dull too. There's a moment in the Absolutely Fabulous movie where a publisher or agent or something tells Edina that 'your life may be interesting to live, but not to read about' or something to that affect. And I thought about this a lot while listening to this book. All in all, this is by no means a bad book, just not for me. If you enjoy personal stories, awkward senses of humour, or stories from the entertainment industry, you should check out Why Not Me!
Date published: 2018-05-08
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Love Mindy Kaling Mindy Kaling is a great author and comedian. Good read!
Date published: 2018-04-26
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Another one to love! She is always so honest and she really engages her reader.
Date published: 2018-04-24
Rated 5 out of 5 by from I love This book Excellent book to read. Great author. A book that you can just read for fun.
Date published: 2018-04-06
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Such a Great Read This was such a great read! So funny, witty and smart. Mindy is a great author and comedian. Glad I picked up this book. Definitely worth a read and I guarantee you won't want to put it down.
Date published: 2018-04-01
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Pretty Good I'm not the biggest Mindy Kaling fan but I got this book as a gift and it's actually pretty funny and relatable. Definitely worth the $8 sale price.
Date published: 2018-03-21
Rated 3 out of 5 by from Liked it I love Mindy Kaling and thought this was a good read. I haven't read her first book and am looking forward to picking it up!
Date published: 2018-03-18
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Love her! I thought this book was better than her last one. Lots of anecdotes I thought I could relate to.
Date published: 2018-03-15
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Better than the last! I absolutely loved her first book but I think i enjoyed this one a bit more! Mindy's humour is one of my favourites! I hope she writes another book soon!
Date published: 2018-03-13
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Funny Read Must read for fans of Mindy's shows. I liked her first book a little better though.
Date published: 2018-03-06
Rated 5 out of 5 by from So Funny Mindy Kailing is such a funny writer, if you're fans of The Office or the Mindy Project - its a must read!
Date published: 2018-03-05
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Great bio/funny book Great bio & inspirational book that gives you good life advice, while you're laughing
Date published: 2018-02-27
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Better and better I enjoyed this book more than her first, which I didn't think was possible because I thought the first was amazing. RECOMMEND!!
Date published: 2018-02-21
Rated 3 out of 5 by from So so Funny read, funny bits, some parts made me skip over them, having trouble finishing it
Date published: 2018-02-12
Rated 4 out of 5 by from A quirky, funny read Reading this book was like having a conversation with Mindy - smart, funny, and overall fun.
Date published: 2018-02-10
Rated 5 out of 5 by from The Mindy Book Just like her TV show, The Mindy Project, this book is quirky fun and an easy light read. For me, her shared thoughts reaffirm WHY NOT ME?
Date published: 2018-02-01
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Inspiring and hilarious! This book had me laughing and feeling inspired all at the same time. "Why not me?" INDEED! Mindy followed her dreams and you can too!
Date published: 2018-01-27
Rated 5 out of 5 by from How Can You Not Love Mindy? Love her sense of humour and how relatable she is, would definitely recommend this as an easy read for vacations!
Date published: 2018-01-26
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Love her! She's so funny! So great to hear from her, curious to learn more
Date published: 2018-01-24
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Funny Book! Loved this book and all of her books! Can't wait for her to write another!
Date published: 2018-01-23
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Funny Mindy is hilarious and this book is laugh out loud funny. Would certainly recommend to others!
Date published: 2018-01-21
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Great book! Very funny book! Listened to the audiobook in only 3 days while on the bus and could hardly contain my laughter.
Date published: 2018-01-19
Rated 5 out of 5 by from comical very funny read. she gives great insight
Date published: 2018-01-17
Rated 3 out of 5 by from Simple fun read Mindy Kaling keeps it real and honest but in a funny way. She will make you laugh, its an awesome book to read on the beach, or between your more serious reads for some lightheartedness.
Date published: 2018-01-15
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Honest and beautiful This book provides an inside view in Mindy Kalings life and career. Both charming and real, Why Not Me is a great read for anyone and everyone. Once I started reading, I couldn't put it down. There are many comical parts, but also many parts that are touching!!
Date published: 2018-01-14
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Light and hilarious I loved this book! Mindy is hilarious and very relatable. It's a great book for those looking for something light to read, but can still get a good laugh.
Date published: 2018-01-14
Rated 4 out of 5 by from insightful and funny really enjoyed this book, both because of the humor and personal details that she shared about her life
Date published: 2018-01-13
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Interesting I loved reading about her personal life and about The Mindy Project's development.
Date published: 2018-01-12
Rated 5 out of 5 by from A great read! I loved this! Mindy is such a great author, this book was so enjoyable.
Date published: 2018-01-07
Rated 5 out of 5 by from A great follow up to her first book I enjoyed this book just as much as the first. I love her feminist and hilarious look on life!
Date published: 2018-01-05
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Hilarious! This one was my favourite from Mindy, she speaks about her mom and so more heavier material than her first, but doesn't skimp on the humor and romance we all love her for. I think it was a real insight to her as a person, i loved every moment
Date published: 2018-01-05
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Funny! Lots of great humour! Nice, easy read.
Date published: 2018-01-04
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Great read Such a fun read.! Makes me want to be friends with Mindy!
Date published: 2018-01-03
Rated 4 out of 5 by from As hilarious as the show Mindy Kaling will never not be funny
Date published: 2017-12-29
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Mindy Kaling Great and funny book. Perfect for fans of the Mindy Project!
Date published: 2017-12-28
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Love it I really enjoyed this.. Mindy is hilarious and I like her easy, laid back writing style.
Date published: 2017-12-19
Rated 4 out of 5 by from hilarious! i loved this book! i was even crying from laughing to hard at some points. if you are trying to decide between the first book and this one, i felt like the second one was more creatively written and funny
Date published: 2017-12-16
Rated 4 out of 5 by from hilarious! i loved this book! i was even crying from laughing to hard at some points. if you are trying to decide between the first book and this one, i felt like the second one was more creatively written and funny
Date published: 2017-12-16
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Another fun book Her first book was great and so is this one. She continues to be funny and relatable.
Date published: 2017-12-13
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Love Love Love Her first book is incredibly funny, so hearing that she made a second book, I was very curious as to what she would write about this time around. She covers relatable topics and shares very insightful stuff that I think any Mindy fan would appreciate. #plumreview
Date published: 2017-12-07
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Sista Sista Such a fun read! Felt like she was my older sister. Loved the first one more though
Date published: 2017-12-06
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Very funny Not as good as her first book but still very good,! Definitely laughed out loud
Date published: 2017-12-01
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Love Me Some Mindy Mindy is a hilarious comedian and actress, now also an author!
Date published: 2017-11-29
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Loved it! Just finished this book and I absolutely love Mindy. I kept reading the whole book in her voice. Very true to her style and very funny. Now I need to read her first book!
Date published: 2017-11-27
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Funny... But not as good as her first book. Still worth the read though if you are a fan of The Mindy Project or The Office.
Date published: 2017-11-23
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Read it in one night! So funny, Her best novel yet! I'm so happy I picked this up
Date published: 2017-11-22
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Oh Mindy! I loved her first book so I was so excited when this came out. So funny and entertaining!
Date published: 2017-11-21
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Good Read! Really liked it. I found myself laughing out loud IN PUBLIC on numerous occasions. I was a fan of her on The Mindy Project, which convinced me to try this out. I liked her book a lot. I stopped reading a few times when I got busy but was able to start up reading as if I'd never stopped. Some interesting insights into her life and hilarious views kept me entertained throughout.
Date published: 2017-11-17
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Funny I thought it was hilarious
Date published: 2017-11-14
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Her best novel I think I liked this one more than her first book. This was more readable, and still had her cute, funny, quirky style. I feel this was more cohesive than the last piece.
Date published: 2017-11-11
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Couldn't put it down! I enjoyed getting to know more about Mindy Kaling and her hilarious encounters as her career took off. I was continuously laughing out loud. A quick read and easy to pick up where you left off.
Date published: 2017-11-11
Rated 2 out of 5 by from Eh... I like Mindy Kaling's comedy but this book was not good. I had a hard time finishing it. Did not enjoy her style of "writing". Would not recommend.
Date published: 2017-11-10
Rated 5 out of 5 by from a great read It was funny and raw and honest. It was like talking to a bff
Date published: 2017-11-09
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Laugh out loud funny! I found myself having to stifle laughter when reading this book out in public! If you enjoy Mindy Kaling's brand of humour from the Office and the Mindy Project, this book is for you!
Date published: 2017-11-08
Rated 2 out of 5 by from it's okay I'm a fan of the Mindy Project and this book is great for getting to know Mindy but... it's just ok.
Date published: 2017-11-07
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Funny and Light Read Mindy is a humorous write both in the TV world and as an author. She is very entertaining and honestly my girl crush. If you are a fan of her show you will enjoy this book as well!
Date published: 2017-10-31
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Inspiring I absolutely love Mindy. She is a funny and inspiring author. I usually don't read celebrity books, but this one I could not put down. I highly recommend if you want a sneak peek in celebrities life with a quirk.
Date published: 2017-10-31
Rated 5 out of 5 by from A fun read Great book. I could not put it down. Mindy was funny and charming as per ushe and I felt like I was hanging out with her for the afternoon while reading it.
Date published: 2017-10-29
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Inspiring Mindy Kaling's Why Not Me? is an authentic glimpse into the mind of a young, minority woman in the media industry. Through a number of short essays, Why Not Me? explores topics such as romance, work and body image in a manner that is relatable, humorous and inspiring all at once. I could not put this book down!
Date published: 2017-10-26
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Absolutely in love I absolutely love Mindy Kaling. I think she's hilarious, smart and so witty. This was a great, fun read - I read it all in one sitting. If you are looking for a fun read and are a Mindy Kaling fan then this is a must read!!
Date published: 2017-10-20
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Such a good book! Mindy Kaling is amazing and this book just shows you how much. You can relate to so many things she says and she constantly keeps you laughing. It really shows her growth from the last book to this one.
Date published: 2017-10-12
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Hilarious follow up If you loved Mindy's first book, you'll enjoy this one.
Date published: 2017-10-11
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Great read It was a really great read. It was funny and entertaining.
Date published: 2017-10-11
Rated 4 out of 5 by from If you love Mindy... If you love Mindy, you will enjoy this book. It is an easy, quick read that lends information into her life. Worth a read.
Date published: 2017-10-09
Rated 4 out of 5 by from fun read I enjoyed it. It was fun and light to read. Glad I picked it up.
Date published: 2017-10-03
Rated 5 out of 5 by from More emotional and insightful than her first book Mindy Kaling shares a bit more about her life and how she’s grown since writing her last book. She never ceases to make you laugh, but there were a couple of times that I was near tears, especially when she talks about the death of her mother. My favourite chapters were “Soup Snakes” about her friendship with B.J. Novak and “A Perfect Courtship in My Alternate Life”, a short story told through emails. There is even some good advice for young girls sprinkled throughout. Also the inside cover is like a white wallpaper with gold hamburgers, smartphones, lipstick, stars, and birds, which I think pretty much sums up her personality.
Date published: 2017-10-03
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Raw & Funny If you're looking for something to keep you giggling this book is for you! I was not a fan of her, but I was given this book to read as a present and man was a really impressed! I loved how raw she wrote her story which kept you engaged throughout the book, so funny!!
Date published: 2017-09-29
Rated 4 out of 5 by from A must read for fans I love love love everything Mindy does! This book was worth picking up, as was her first book. I didn't love every part of it, but overall I enjoyed it.
Date published: 2017-09-26
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Good easy read This is a great light summer read. While I liked her first book more, Mindy doesn't disappoint.
Date published: 2017-09-21
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Loved it I'm biased, because I can't see fault in Mindy Kaling. Ever. She is a badass with a great sense of humour. Loved the book and it's a great match to her first, "Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me?"
Date published: 2017-09-20
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Loved it This book made me laugh several times. Mindy Kaling has such a refreshing perspective and I appreciate her willingness to share parts of her life
Date published: 2017-09-14
Rated 4 out of 5 by from A good laugh This book is exactly what you would expect from Mindy Kaling.
Date published: 2017-09-12
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Even better than the first If you enjoyed the first book, you'll love this one. Mindy writes about her personal life, her experiences as a writer, actor and producer on the television show, as well as her friendships (yes, B.J. Novak) and her relationships. I was so excited for this one to come out. It has the same collection of compelling, personal, hilarious stories and pictures.
Date published: 2017-09-12
Rated 4 out of 5 by from So good! I have to say I was so excited for this to come out. not as good as the first but I do definitely recommend it!
Date published: 2017-09-08
Rated 4 out of 5 by from hahaha hilarious this book will make you LOL the whole way through.. it is funny, relatable and fun. Good bathroom read.
Date published: 2017-09-07
Rated 5 out of 5 by from This book is my soup snake! the review title is one of the great references (and inside jokes from the book) which is why I chose it because it was full of unexpected and thoughtful commentary about life, love and kickassery. A great read all around!
Date published: 2017-09-06
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Awesome I was really excited for this to come out, I didn't find it as funny as her first book but still a great ready!
Date published: 2017-09-05
Rated 4 out of 5 by from funny! This was really enjoyable!
Date published: 2017-09-05
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Great gift idea Bought as a gift for my sister and she loved it!
Date published: 2017-08-29
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Kaling Addict I read this when I woke up, while I brushed my teeth, free time at work, in the toilet, waiting for laundry, while doing laundry, while folding laundry, after folding said laundry... basically yea I finished this in 2 days because well.. she's a genius and she deserves every award known to man. Just read it...
Date published: 2017-08-29
Rated 5 out of 5 by from So funny! Finished this book in nearly one sitting! Hilarious, heartwarming at times, and it's definitely Mindy Kaling in book form!
Date published: 2017-08-18
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Hilarious! Could not put this book down!
Date published: 2017-08-08
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Fun! A great and funny book. Loved it, much like her first book. #plumreview
Date published: 2017-08-05
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Love love love Ran to Chapters to get this as soon as I finished her first book! Loved them both! I especially liked how this had a lot of relationship and girly advice
Date published: 2017-07-22
Rated 5 out of 5 by from As Good As Her First Read this immediately after 'Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me?' and it was JUST as good!
Date published: 2017-07-19
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Wonderful and hilarious This is an excellent book, Mindy is so funny and such a great writer. I feel like she could make anything sound fun and hilarious and I would be excited to read it. I've never laughed so hard from a book before.
Date published: 2017-07-14
Rated 5 out of 5 by from funny book` I love Mindy Kaling, and am always happy to read some stories of her life. great, quick book.
Date published: 2017-07-12
Rated 5 out of 5 by from funny and light hearted reading She is so funny and this book is a fun read!
Date published: 2017-07-03
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Mindy Kaling is great but.... I like the original Mindy Kaling book better. Still, it is full with funny and heartfelt anecdotes. If you are a fan, check it out.
Date published: 2017-06-27
Rated 3 out of 5 by from Was a little disappointed I love Mindy but I found with her books a little boring. Still was a good break from my usual reads.
Date published: 2017-06-26
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Hilarious Mindy is hilarious! Felt like talking to a friend!
Date published: 2017-06-26
Rated 5 out of 5 by from LOVE a great light read, loved it even more than the first one #plumreview
Date published: 2017-06-22
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Great follow up to her first book. Recommend audiobook version I loved her first book so much, so I was really excited when her second book came out. While it was still really funny, it just didn't click with me as easily as her first book, and I felt a couple of parts dragged just a tiny bit, and a bit more edgier/harsher in parts. It's still an excellent, lighthearted read though, and as I recommended with her first book, be sure to listen to the audiobook for the best delivery of Mindy's jokes and stories in true Mindy Kaling fashion.
Date published: 2017-06-22
Rated 4 out of 5 by from loved this book! Such a great light read! Amazing book if you just want to read something that will make you happy and laugh!
Date published: 2017-06-20
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Loved it! Hilarious, inspirational, incredibly personal. fantastic read if you are a fan of the Mindy Project, The Office or Mindy herself.
Date published: 2017-06-15
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Loved it! This was the perfect follow up to her first book.
Date published: 2017-06-14
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Loved it!!! I smiled, laughed, and didn't want to put the book down.
Date published: 2017-06-14
Rated 5 out of 5 by from This book is fun!! If you are looking for something to give you a giggle, this is it! A good book for unwinding at the end of the night
Date published: 2017-06-12
Rated 5 out of 5 by from First Audiobook I finished I recently took a job where on Fridays I do a lot of mindless tasks, folding and cutting paper, stuffing envelopes. I really wanted to get into audiobooks to have some intellectual stimulation during this dull time. First I tried fiction. I love fiction, particularly bestsellers/Heather's picks. If something is popular I want to know why and I usually enjoy it. But I could never follow the stories and I felt like I missed things. Often narrators were unengaging. So non-fiction seemed up my alley. I tried some clean-up, become-successful, take-charge-of-your-life type books and was generally disappointed. It was all very dull and I actually found it annoying to the point I turned them off. Admittedly that genre has never been my preference. After some research I came across several people claiming that audiobooks were all about who was reading them, and Amy Poeler's book was suggested as a book with an engaging narrator. I liked Amy's book very much, though I kind of drifted in and out it was overall engaging and fun. Unfortunately I had to return it to my elibrary before I finished and there was a waitlist to take it out again. So I tried Mindy's book. I liked Mindy on The Office and The Mindy Project, but only in small doses. She can be brash, but I have a lot of respect for that unapologetic brashness. I was interested in what she'd have to say. This book was a DELIGHT. Mindy is so engaging. It's like going to a party where one person has all the best stories and is telling them freely. Mindy is funny, entertaining, and occasionally insightful. I have certain acquaintances who I am not close friends with for the primary reason that they seem like a lot of work. They are constantly firing on all cylinders and things just seems to happen to them. Often they are wrong, rude, or upset about something trivial. But they have the best anecdotes and I love to seem them at parties. Mindy's book reminds me of time spent with those people and I love it.
Date published: 2017-06-09
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Entertaining Another thoroughly entertaining read from Mindy Kalig. I enjoy her humour and her anecdotes about her shows, The Office and The Mindy Project. I could have done without the excessively long chapter with the e-mail/text exchanges, but overall I was amused from start to finish.
Date published: 2017-06-08
Rated 5 out of 5 by from 2nd book does it again! Like her first, I loved her 2nd book. Full of laughs, mouth gaping, 'Oh no she didnt' moments, this book will also leave a huge grinning smile on your face. Hard to put down, great read for any occasion anywhere, Mindy delivers once again!
Date published: 2017-06-07
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Kaling is the best! I highly recommend reading her books. I also highly recommend the audiobooks. Hearing her read her own story is hilarious and so fun.
Date published: 2017-06-06
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Fun I had such a great time reading this book. Lighthearted and hilarious.
Date published: 2017-06-04
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Hilarious! Mindy can do no wrong - I loved this one even more than the first book!
Date published: 2017-05-26
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Lightening can strike twice Just as funny as the first. Cannot express how much I adore Mindy. She is invited to any of my girls nights out anytime!
Date published: 2017-05-07
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Love this Girl! Okay before reading thought that Mindy was funny. Now I want to be her BFF. She has no filter and had me laughing out loud.
Date published: 2017-05-07
Rated 3 out of 5 by from Enjoyable This is a good summer read. Light and fluffy and good humored.
Date published: 2017-05-04
Rated 4 out of 5 by from light hearted , fun read i feel really relaxed reading her books ! she has a fun way of describing the twists in her day to day life....there is a bit of fluff but over all a nice read!
Date published: 2017-05-03
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Great read Very entertaining, loved the 1st book and loved this one as well.
Date published: 2017-04-29
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Lighthearted. I love Mindy Kaling and how candid she is. I also read her first book and would recommend both.
Date published: 2017-04-27
Rated 4 out of 5 by from I like it. Very funny, just like her. Easy to read and got through it very quickly. If you just want an easy read for a relaxing day this is the book to read.
Date published: 2017-04-26
Rated 5 out of 5 by from LOVED LOVED LOVED Mindy is hilarious! She is a captivating writer. Very different from the Mindy Project.
Date published: 2017-04-24
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Great book Love Mindy Kaling and her writing.
Date published: 2017-04-22
Rated 3 out of 5 by from I really wanted to love this book I really like the Mindy Project and so I thought I would love her books but what it has made me realize is that although I love fluff in my tv shows when I am reading a book I want more from it, either more of a story or just more depth. I liked this one better than her first book but still as much as I wanted to I just don't really love her books.
Date published: 2017-04-19
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Hilarious I don't usually read non fiction books, unless it's a requirement for class, but I actually ended up loving this book! I've always liked Mindy and her writing is humourous. I caught myself laughing out loud multiple times.
Date published: 2017-04-18
Rated 3 out of 5 by from It's Okay! I'm honestly not a huge fan of The Mindy Project, but I loved Mindy on The Office so I had to check this out! I love how down to earth she is and I absolutely adore her personality, but I wasn't always 100% invested in what she was telling us. If you're a huge Mindy fan, definitely check this out!
Date published: 2017-04-10
Rated 3 out of 5 by from LOLd I'm a huge fan of the work of Mindy Kaling, so no surprise here, I loved her book and writing style. I also enjoyed learning a little bit more about her and her journey.
Date published: 2017-04-07
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Pretty good This book was funny although it had a hard time capturing my attention for long periods of time. I found this was the type of book that I could read, put down and pick up later.
Date published: 2017-04-02
Rated 4 out of 5 by from LOVE HER! Love her show and this book is hilarious!!
Date published: 2017-03-30
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Fun! This book is fun, entertaining and relevant ! Mindy's second book is similar, but doesn't disappoint!
Date published: 2017-03-28
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Hilarious! Mindy is as amazing as ever in her second book. It's funny, interesting and inspiring.
Date published: 2017-03-28
Rated 3 out of 5 by from Pretty much what I expected It was okay. I think I managed a few laughs. The first one felt fresher and more engaging to me. This book (which I think of as the B side) is perfectly fine - no complaints, but no excitement either. If you're into the first book, it's probably worth checking out.
Date published: 2017-03-24
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Funny I love Mindy Kaling. The book was hilarious. The only complaint is that it seemed a little short.
Date published: 2017-03-23
Rated 5 out of 5 by from super funny! Even funnier than the first one! Great read! #plumreview
Date published: 2017-03-11
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Whats not to love, if you love Mindy! So obviously, don't read this if you don't adore Mindy Kaling. Considering this book is Mindy through and through, I literally read this book with her voice in my head. She's relatable and hilarious, incredibly talented and hard working. I really look up to her dedication, and though this book was a knock out read, it was also very inspirational as a woman. I literally felt like I had inside jokes with her, obviously I didn't considering I was in small town Alberta, staying in to read her book on a Friday night in sweats. But I know she appreciates that kind of woman. Anyway, I loved this book, even more then her first.
Date published: 2017-03-10
Rated 4 out of 5 by from I love Mindy! I got this book for my birthday and it was a fantastic read. I have absolutely loved how funny and "real" it was
Date published: 2017-03-09
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Very Charming The same fun and magic as the first book. Fast paced and funny :)
Date published: 2017-03-09
Rated 3 out of 5 by from Love Mindy! I really like Mindy, and this book was great for some light reading, but there was wasn't a huge amount to take away from it.
Date published: 2017-03-08
Rated 3 out of 5 by from Light Reading I have a love/hate relationship with Mindy Kaling....I think she's funny and part of me wants to be her friend...and the other part of me is like 'ya I get it, you weren't cute when you were little and grew up to be a successful writer'. Nothing about this book is too outside the box - it's exactly what you expect it to be.
Date published: 2017-03-06
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Fast read! Made me laugh so much, liked it better than the first one
Date published: 2017-03-05
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Fun read If you would like a good laugh, this book is for you.
Date published: 2017-03-03
Rated 4 out of 5 by from I Love Mindy! I love Mindy Kaling. She is one of the most talented, multi-dimensional, interesting actors that I have ever come across. She talks a lot about relationships which I found to be honest and entertaining, as well as some harder moments in life such as losing her mom, battling with weight issues, and the struggle of trying to get her own show.
Date published: 2017-03-01
Rated 5 out of 5 by from great book! love her style of writing and overall a great read!
Date published: 2017-02-27
Rated 5 out of 5 by from A fun read! An easy and fun read. Mindy's story are hilarious and have a lot of heart. Perfect as lighthearted vacation reading.
Date published: 2017-02-20
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Very Funny! She's great and this book is too!
Date published: 2017-02-19
Rated 4 out of 5 by from yay love this, the essays are great
Date published: 2017-02-15
Rated 5 out of 5 by from two thumbs up I Love her, Made me laugh out loud
Date published: 2017-02-08
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Good! Good. A nice look at mindy, I might have liked this one more than the first! a little more juicy personal that the other (we want to know about celebrity)
Date published: 2017-02-08
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Very funny and enjoyable Mindy Kaling is a force to be reckoned with
Date published: 2017-02-07
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Very Real Why Not Me is a very good read and talks about issues Mindy herself faced and how she dealt with them. Very powerful and motivational. Written in a great way with humor incorporated in just the right places.
Date published: 2017-02-05
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Really enjoyed Really enjoyed this book of Mindy's! Recommend.
Date published: 2017-02-02
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Gotta Love Mindy Mindy is so witty and hilarious, I love this book. She is truly inspiring.
Date published: 2017-02-02
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Another personably and funny book from Mindy This was a fun and easy read. If you have not read her first book, I would recommend checking that out as well. Both make you feel like she's just one of your friends - really personable!
Date published: 2017-02-02
Rated 5 out of 5 by from Loved it It was a light read and it was alot of fun. she touches different topics but always with a comedic touch and it's great.
Date published: 2017-01-31
Rated 4 out of 5 by from Enjoyed the book but... I enjoyed Mindy's first book much more. I found her much more relate-able in that one. This one has more recent stories about her life in the entertainment industry, which are still interesting but loses some of the "real girl" charm she had, Still enjoyed the stories and still had some good laughs throughout. Would definitely still recommend it.
Date published: 2017-01-29

Read from the Book

One evening last year, I was onstage at a Q&A in Manhattan hosted by a magazine to discuss my life and career. This was one of those fancy events where ticket prices are high, and there’s wine and cheese beforehand, and cocktails, but no real meal is served at any point. It made you wish you had just shushed the naysayers and brought three hot little sliders in your clutch to nibble at opportune moments. No one else seemed to mind the lack of food, though, because the theater was packed, primarily with an older, mostly white crowd.I was very tired. I had filmed a full week on the show, traveled on a red-eye from Los Angeles, done press all day, and arrived at the theater. It would be the last hurdle before I could go back to my hotel, take off my pants, and eat a room-service club sandwich while I watched syndicated reruns of The Big Bang Theory. Sheldon’s sweetbazinga! would lull me to sleep, as is always my preference.At the end of the interview, the moderator opened the floor to the audience. I noticed that the small group of people who lined up to ask me questions looked very different from the majority of the crowd. They were mostly young women of color. After a few people went, a young Indian girl stepped forward to take the microphone. She looked about fifteen, and not only out of place in that crowd but also a little young to be asking a question in front of such a big audience. I think she felt it, too, because I could see from the stage that she was shaking. After a moment of nervous silence, she asked, “Mindy, where do you get your confidence? Because I feel like I used to have it when I was younger but now I don’t.”Context is so important. If this question had been asked by a white man, I might actually have been offended, because the subtext of it would have been completely different. When an adult white man asks me “Where do you get your confidence?” the tacit assumption behind it is: “Because you don’t look like a person who should have any confidence. You’re not white, you’re not a man, and you’re not thin or conventionally attractive. How were you able to overlook these obvious shortcomings to feel confident? ”But this wasn’t coming from a white man. This was coming from a vulnerable young girl who thought that maybe, when I was her age, I too had faced similar obstacles. All she wanted was guidance, or maybe a little empathy.My answer was not very good. My tiredness betrayed me, and I think I said something like: “Wow, I don’t know. I think it’s from my parents always telling me I could do anything. I wish I had a better answer for you.” I wished her good luck, and she nodded politely and said thank you.When I get asked the same question over and over for years, the words of my answer begin to lose their meaning, even for me. Talking about confidence has become, to me, like listening to the flight attendant go through the in-flight passenger safety announcements. I could be leafing through a copy of American Way as I speak. I open my mouth and glib phrases like “supportive parents” and “strong sense of self” leak out. People seem mollified, but who knows? Maybe they are tuning me out too.As I watched her walk back to her seat, a wave of guilty regret hit me. This girl had done a lot to summon up the courage to ask a question, and she didn’t even want anything in return other than my honest answer. She didn’t want a selfie or for me to read her script, or to call her cousin’s friend who loved The Office so she could tell me, “No, I loved Office Space. Were you in that? ” She just wanted me to give her practical advice, and I answered in a way that was technically true but did not offer a lot of insight. And everyone had been fine with it.And that really sucks. Because then why am I even speaking on panels in the first place?So this essay is for that girl who went out of her way to be vulnerable in front of so many people, to whom I gave such a shitty, unhelpful response. Because I’ve thought about it now and I have my real answer. Hopefully she hasn’t stopped liking me and moved on to Laverne Cox, though if she did, how could I blame her? She seems inspirational as hell and her legs are like whoa.For the record, I, like everyone else, have had moments when I felt unattractive and stupid and unskilled. When I started at The Office, I had zero confidence. Whenever Greg Daniels came into the room to talk to our small group of writers, I was so nervous that I would raise and lower my chair involuntarily, like a tic. Finally, weeks in, writer Mike Schur put his hand on my arm and said, gently, “You have to stop.” Years later I realized that the way I had felt during those first few months was correct. I didn’t deserve to be confident yet. I happen to believe that no one inherently deserves anything, except basic human rights, and not to have to watch an ad before you watch a trailer on YouTube.So here it is: Mindy Kaling’s No Fail, Always Works, Secret Guide to Confidence. This is why you spent your entire vacation reading this book instead of talking to your family.Confidence is just entitlement. Entitlement has gotten a bad rap because it’s used almost exclusively for the useless children of the rich, reality TV stars, and Conrad Hilton Jr., who gets kicked off an airplane for smoking pot in the lavatory and calling people peasants or whatever. But entitlement in and of itself isn’t so bad. Entitlement is simply the belief that you deserve something. Which is great. The hard part is, you’d better make sure you deserve it. So, how did I make sure that I deserved it?To answer that, I would like to quote from the Twitter bio of one of my favorite people, Kevin Hart. It reads:My name is Kevin Hart and I WORK HARD!!! That pretty much sums me up!!! Everybody Wants To Be Famous But Nobody Wants To Do The Work! HARD WORK; OR, THE THING NO ONE WANTS TO HEAR ABOUTPeople talk about confidence without ever bringing up hard work. That’s a mistake. I know I sound like some dour older spinster chambermaid on Downton Abbey who has never felt a man’s touch and whose heart has turned to stone, but I don’t understand how you could have self-confidence if you don’t do the work.

Editorial Reviews

“Kaling has written a second book that’s funnier, sharper and more confident than her 2011 collection of personal essays and pop culture riffs called Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? (And Other Concerns).  Even the title of that initial effort implied that Kaling was trying to find her place; the tone of this new one announces that she’s found it and is more than comfortable inviting people to spend time with her there.”—Washington Post“Funny, thoughtful essays and anecdotes written in the star’s trademark voice. But this time around, things are just little more grown-up…This is Kaling at the height of her power.”—USA Today “Mindy Kaling may be gearing up for the fourth season of her TV show, The Mindy Project, but that didn't deter her from writing another wildly entertaining and completely relatable book… Her first memoir, Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? (And Other Concerns), spent time on several best-seller lists. Why Not Me? will certainly follow in its footsteps.”—Associated Press“Hilarious…Kaling knows her strengths, and plays to them brilliantly…Aside from that effortlessly conversational tone and her pitch-perfect humor, Kaling’s biggest strength here is curatorial. She gives us the candy we came for – the advice, the anecdotes, the straight talk on body image – but sprinkles in something extra.”—Entertainment Weekly, A-“Why Not Me? is all that we've come to expect from the creator and star of The Mindy Project: refreshing, confident, genuine, and, yes, absolutely hilarious.” —Refinery29 “…insightful personal essays from one of Hollywood's cleverest writers… Intrepid and often irreverent, Kaling humbly probes her own triumphs and defeats with laugh-out-loud results”. —Kirkus Reviews“Kaling's irreverent take on life is both uproariously funny and dead-on…Advice on a variety of topics—including why extensions make everyone more beautiful and how the world needs to start assuming that all young women are confident—make this an empowering and entertaining read.”—Publishers Weekly